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作者: christywong    時間: 2005-5-13 05:39 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

我同左個男仔一齊....... 個男仔係2weeks前同佢拍左7年拖ga女朋友散左.... 我地係開始時幾開心ga.... 但係開始有d唔對路...... 因為個男仔鍾意浦.......我自己又唔係禁鍾意.... 佢浦個時又唔聽電話一係聽左好快收線...... 所以有時好擔心佢會走左去...... 究竟我應該點做?點先可以維持...........>.<
作者: joe198663    時間: 2005-5-13 06:00 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

Realx~ Don't be so worried! ^_^
I understand that you are really worried about how to keep each other's relationship...
Since I have a similar experience as you before...
When you LOVE a person, you will be concern about him...
You may care about his habit, his hobby or his lifestyile...
So you will be worried that you can match with him or not...
We are worried all day when we have just fallen in LOVE with somebody...
Since we are afraid of losting our valentine...

But actually it is worthless for you to think too much...
Sometimes it is impossible for us to match with somebody's hobby..
Because actually we also have our own lifestyile...
If you are reluctant to develop your LOVE, you will be so painful...
And actually there may be no result...
It is enough for you to enjoy the moment of LOVE...
Let your LOVE develops naturally...
And it seems that your boyfriend doesn't LOVE you with his true heart...
Since your boyfriend is not patient enough to listen to you...
It is the time for you to ponder that it is worth to LOVE him continuously or not...
I suggest you may have a heart-to-heart with him...
Try to find what problem happen between you & him...

Wish you can solve your problem early!
作者: vling2884    時間: 2005-5-13 06:04 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

我會建議同佢傾下咯..
其實o岩o岩至開始..呢個問題都幾重要..
若果你唔講.."擺"係心度仲吾舒服??
況且..情侶間應該有商有量嘛..
佢係鍾意你既..應該會體諒你既感受..
作者: christywong    時間: 2005-5-13 06:18 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

但係佢好多時好似唔多理我......
有d似單戀禁tim......
唔.....仲有好驚佢會同之前ga女朋友一齊返......
自覺不及佢以前ga女朋友.........
真係唔知點做好.......
作者: vling2884    時間: 2005-5-13 08:14 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

唉..感情呢回事..係冇得擔心既..
根本就係雙方面..
憑你個人力量可以控制嗎??
既然你都話...男方都抱住愛理不理既態度..
相信你都明白佢既心意咯..
點解仲要全副心思集中係佢身上??
係咪係你既世界..
只係有感情..只係有佢..而並冇其他既存在
作者: 邪炎    時間: 2005-5-13 09:07 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

嗯∼∼∼那麼我想問一問？！
你有冇好好咁話比你男朋友知你有呢ｄ感覺呢？！
因為有時ｄ野要比對方清清楚楚咁知道才行的∼
如果佢真係好喜歡你的話∼
就算係好鍾意蒲的都會特地抽時間來陪自己心愛的人哦！
那麼你便好好地跟他再說一次吧！
看看仔會不會因為你而改變哦^^a
不過做女孩子的也不要太過黏身哦∼
因為有時會使男孩子討厭哦^^~
希望愚見可以幫到你la^________________^
作者: hsu    時間: 2005-5-13 01:24 PM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

You are too insecure. Lighten up! Keep your distance from him is a good way to make him keep interested in you.
作者: 呀倫    時間: 2005-5-14 10:57 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

唔好咁擔心啦你!
事情可能唔係你咁諗o既呢!
佢係鐘意你o既就唔會走左去o既
佢同佢女友都有7年啦!我諗佢唔會咁花心o既!
你可以諗下佢唔理你係咩野原因先!
唔係只有同佢舊女友係埋一齊至係咁嫁ma
會唔會佢係其他事呢!
佢鐘意去浦,可能呢d係佢o既興趣呢!
你唔可以因為你唔鐘意而去懷疑人嫁
可能佢同佢舊女友都係咁嫁呢!
你可以問下佢點解咁鐘意浦,點解成日都唔理你!!
了解下可能會改變你而家o既睇法嫁
作者: christywong    時間: 2005-5-14 01:17 PM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

兩日搵唔到佢la.......
心也碎了......
作者: taoming    時間: 2005-5-17 01:52 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

下面引用由christywong在 2005/05/14 01:17pm 發表的內容：
兩日搵唔到佢la.......
心也碎了......
也許對方也發覺與您性格不合......
也許雙方的緣份已到盡頭.....
也許只是抽到命運之輪的逆牌、八字流年傷官見官殺、易卦官爻落空亡.....
時間會證明一切！
時間亦會治療心靈上的傷口！
作者: christywong    時間: 2005-5-17 02:19 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

我失戀好少要治療._.
可能一向有一種"準備失敗"ga方法去睇事
得到ga係"多出"......失去係正常............
但我又唔會過份悲觀lor._."
我都算好野la ga@v@"
作者: dante    時間: 2005-5-17 06:42 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

合則來不合則去,你同係兩個世界既人,
要取得平衡,就要去相方都要溝通!
一段感情要用坦白去面對,搵佢出黎講下啦!
唔好到左你無左佢唔得既時候!
作者: gacktau    時間: 2005-5-21 09:57 PM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

嗯...christy....感情這東西其實還滿奇妙的啊~!
這次遇著個對你不好的..算是他一定後悔的事吧~!
如果你問我....一段感情如何維持的話...
那麼...對對方有足夠的信任是必需的...不信任何必做情人..
其次一定是感覺...無了感覺又何來愛呢?
要令感覺不要減退過快.....要?方關心對方...
需不用要日日談電話服到.....至少問下對方工作辛苦嗎?
有無病...有無不開心之類.....感受到關心..是一種最大的快樂..
可能你快遇到一個令你快樂的人啊~^^...
而且下一次都是不好的....記住要在這裡大罵一番啊..呵呵
作者: angefan    時間: 2005-5-22 05:49 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

感情是不可以勉強的，所以我從來不強求感情，喜歡的就來，不喜歡的就走。
你留得他的身體，不能留往他的心。這樣只會讓自己痛苦，又何必呢？
作者: porkchophell    時間: 2005-5-22 10:30 PM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

其實剛開始的時候是需要互相了解.
特別是要清楚對方的性格才一起.
如果你真的愛他的話, 把你的心事拿出來跟他說.
我相信如果他愛你的話他是會聽的.
給自己一些信心吧!
不過如果他真的不適合你的話.
早些放手會比較好.
作者: HimCheng    時間: 2005-5-26 01:43 PM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

試下同佢講下你既感受啦~
因為兩人一起...溝通是很重要的!
亦應諗一諗呢個男仔係咪真係可以同你夾得黎!
小弟以前都成日去蒲...係咁覆雜地方玩...真係好令人擔心!!
所以...樓主先和他溝通一下~
若情況没有改善...就諗下個男仔係咪真係你想要既對像啦!!
作者: christywong    時間: 2005-5-27 12:52 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

多謝大家ar^^
事情已解決la~~~
結局係"分手總要快些!!"
作者: HimCheng    時間: 2005-5-27 09:35 AM     標題: [請求協助]有冇人試過?

分手嗎??
不要難過啊...
你一定會找到一個更好的男友!!



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