queenie329, I totally agree with your opinion...
It is worthless for your friend to sacrifice so much for her boyfriend...
It seems that she has lost her sensibility...
And she believes with an absurd illusion...
Actually we usually lose in LOVE...
And we are helpless while we face this problem...
In fact our blind acception of LOVE makes us lost ourselves...
Your friend is very childish...
If we can't cherish ourselves, are we able to LOVE the other people?
Of course we are unable to LOVE a person if we don't cherish ourselves...
Because of her boyfriend, she has lost many things, her family, her friends & her study...
Is it worth? Doesn't she regret? Aren't she shame?
Apart form that, it seems that her boyfriend doesn't LOVE her with a true heart...
If he really LOVEs her, he will not allow to see her girlfriend's bad behaviour...
He should help her to overcome all the challenges...
And he should encourage her to go on her study...
And he should critiize her bad behaviour...
I suggest you should to have a heart-to-heart with her...
To remind her that she has lost too much...
And I hope that she will wake up oneday...
It is great that you join her family together...
Actually she needs many people's support...
With your great support, she will escape from her illusion oneday...
Wish she can wise up... ^_^作者: 邪炎 時間: 2005-6-17 11:16 AM 標題: 係咪真係要為仔死為仔亡
