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作者: 聲沙女的童話 時間: 2005-9-10 09:03 PM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

我係小學五年級時like上一個男同學,佢既條件arm哂,但係我知自己事,以我e+既樣,根本冇可能!
而且我又咁細,我又想以學業為重.我讀書幾好,我唔想為左愛情而唔能夠好好努力讀書,而且我驚我做唔到,所以我只好暗戀佢.
佢成績好好,全級第一.我就全級第八,我怕我比唔上佢,佢運動極好,港隊,我唔想誤左佢既大好前途.
我地今年升中一,佢入左一間九龍一間好中學,我入左我住個區一間band.1,唔同校,當然少見,我仲諗住我可以唔記得佢,但係昨日,成班畢業生返小學幫手,我就見到佢,我個心又狂跳.我知我忘記唔到佢.我想同佢講,我又驚佢拒絕我;我唔講,我又驚冇左(我都覺佢幾留意我同對我溫柔d)
唔通,佢唔係我既真命天子?我好辛苦
而係中學,我識左個新同學,佢唔靚仔(我幾注重樣= ='),但係好nice,同好好笑!
佢日日都話佢好like坐我前面個女仔(佢坐我隔離),但係佢係注意我多過汪意佢!
我就每日都好想見到個男仔,但係我見到佢,又好想唔成日睇到佢個樣,加上佢有時好人妖下!)咁算唔算愛上佢呀?
我知我仲細,我都試過好多次注重讀書,唔理呢d野,但係我做唔到!

作者: 靈亞 時間: 2005-9-10 09:14 PM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

希望我不會hurt到你>_<""" 小學的戀情很少可以持續到長大後... 但我覺得你現在不說的話,將來會後悔的。

作者: 聲沙女的童話 時間: 2005-9-10 09:30 PM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

但係我講唔出口!
之前個男同學(小學個個)佢真係好好架!但係我高佢少少(真係唔係好多),就算佢都係好like我,我又驚佢介意我呢樣野.
同埋我雖然得12歲,但係好肥,係肥到你地唔會信個隻!
而且個男同學佢好受女仔歡迎,聽聞佢已經同一個同我幾fd既女同學一齊,話就話聽聞,但係好多人都同時證實左係真既!
而且佢好似幾花心,一時傳呢個,一時傳個個,我好驚就算有機會一齊到大,都驚佢變左心!
係唔係真我唔知,我都唔想知,就算係真,我只可以喊,我唔想係ICQ上問佢,我驚會有反效果,到時想講都難la!

作者: 靈亞 時間: 2005-9-10 10:26 PM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

>>而係中學,我識左個新同學,佢唔靚仔(我幾注重樣= ='),但係好nice,同好好笑!
佢日日都話佢好like坐我前面個女仔(佢坐我隔離),但係佢係注意我多過汪意佢!
我就每日都好想見到個男仔,但係我見到佢,又好想唔成日睇到佢個樣,加上佢有時好人妖下!)咁算唔算愛上佢呀?
人家說如果你卧病在床,最想見的那個就是你最愛的那個。或者到某些時候你就會知道你自己最愛的是哪一位了^^
我覺得喜歡人是好正常的事,不要太勉強自己哦~由它自自然然的來吧^0^
其實你所說的情況我以前也遇過類似的事~我中四時喜歡了我的一位很要好的男同學,我知道自己好喜歡他,想向他表白...但又不敢...怕萬一對方不是喜歡我的話就連朋友都做不成了,但最後我決定了要告訴他,我選擇了寫信...寫信的好處是你不必面對對方即時反應,自己又不用說出口,把信交給他看就成了。
我在信中向他說如果他也有意就主動來找我...結果他有來找我(不過是在電話中)
那時候好開心,不過這段感情一個月之後就終結了...
不過有一點要注意,如果你發現你的戀愛對你的學業做成影響,就要考慮一下如何改變狀況了。

作者: 燒碳 時間: 2005-9-11 02:14 AM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

講~ 我小學至依家都暗戀一個女仔有五年幾~E + 後悔之前無講~我男校ga,前幾年
都係一D特別日子碰到佢,但都無,,,,,好後悔~你應該講,重有,如果你成績好ge就保持甘,
吾好因為比呢D事影響到,我E + 身度放左封信,再有機會一定比佢,因為之前有諗過用信,重諗住吾會碰到面,so無左呢回事,點知前幾日碰到,所以E+真係寫左放係身~可能再碰吾到面,但我吾介意~我想講ge係吾一定要一齊,只係想對方知道呢件事,因為放係心度好難頂ga......之前畢業距叫我簽個名,我驚到連簽都吾敢,你已比我好好多la~我只係想做朋友,無諗過其他,可能人成長左la~

作者: joe198663 時間: 2005-9-11 03:37 AM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

聲沙女的童話:
Wise Up!! It is worthless for you to LOVE him...
Since there isn't any result, even if how much you LOVE him...
If you go on to LOVE him, you will be very painful...

As I know, you are only a form 1 student...
It is meaningless for you to think of this puppy LOVE...
You should know that puppy LOVE is momentary & childish...
If you fall in LOVE with the boy, you will be unable to haddle your study...
You will waste a lot of time...
And your parents will worry about you...

You are still young now, there are many choices for you...
It is unnecessary for you to think about LOVE now...
I suggest you should think about it later...

Your study is more important than LOVE...
Now you should focus on your study...
You should prove yourself that you are able to haddle your study...
When you grow up, you won't regret...

Maybe LOVE is blind...
Because of LOVE, people are willing to sacrifice anything...
Because of LOVE. people are willing to do anything...

However we shouldn't lose our sensibility...
Sometimes we should make a decision with our sensibility...
Otherwise we will be decadent...

I hope that you can wake up to the reality...
And study hard......
Wish you all the best to your study!! ^_^

作者: vling2884 時間: 2005-9-11 05:53 AM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

喔..
我既建議係~
以學業為重！！
觀乎以上既談話內容..
好明顯妳既心態仍非常幼嫩..
幸好仲清楚處身於邊個位置..
明白讀書係首要所在^^..
可能我就較為實際..
與其花時間、精神於感情上..
倒不如將呢份心思寄託於學業方面..
或者收穫同成効會更顯注呢^^..
談情說愛..
可以既就暫且閣置啦..
p.s.
憑外表而擇偶..
似乎過於幼稚、無知喎！！

作者: 聲沙女的童話 時間: 2005-9-16 09:44 PM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

我試過好努力讀書,老師都話我成績好左,
我e+就冇諗個d野la!
但係倒返轉,有另一個男仔話想同我做個好朋友,然後睇下arm唔armkey先一齊喎!
今日,我之前既小學搞左個中秋晚會,我有返去玩,我又見到佢......
佢主動同我傾計,返到去,ICQ上佢話佢六年級時like上我........
而我同個中學同學只係幾fd既同學,未到朋友,但係我e+想好好努力讀書多d!
而且我唔想咁快拍拖,我想讀好書先,到中六中七先諗.
我覺得我有能力讀到大學,我唔想哂左!
咁我應該點做?我就覺得要努力讀好書先,
努力做野個樣仲迷人la!
我希望大家俾d意見我!thx^^

作者: ming1992 時間: 2007-10-3 11:35 AM 標題: [請求協助]小妹的暗戀

我覺得...你可以試o下同佢表白!!!如果你唔同佢講你可能會錯過左呢個機會嫁喇!!!
同埋要珍惜眼前人呀!!!

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