其實依家已經好少人會介意 ga la~
我諗 要決定 介唔介意的應該係個小朋友~~
因為父母再婚對個小朋友係有一定的影響!!!!
或者咁講la~~ 其實呢個問題對我o黎講比較敏感~~
因為我就係 係呢種家庭下長大~~
或者我初初接觸 stepfather 時我年紀仲細, 大約仲係 BB 個陣~~
細細個已經同婆婆一齊住, 慢慢俾我接觸 + 接受 呢個 stepfather~~
當然現在我同佢都相處得十分好 la~~
因為佢對我盡左做 daddy ge 責任, 俾我feel 到咩叫做父愛~~
而我都唔介意叫佢做 daddy~~
係我心中係就係 daddy嘛!!!!
即使依家只有 daddy + 媽媽+ 我知道呢件事~~
心中有時的確不是味兒~~
但我已經覺得好滿足~~
因為我覺得呢件事情一開始 已經唔係兩個人ge 事~~
而係 兩個大人 + 小朋友 ge 事~~
做小孩的一定不想生活係好似 "灰姑娘" 咁 ge 環境入面~~
但係唔係真係 3方面都唔介意呢??
我想一定要相處過先會知道~~
有時唔係話 個口講 我唔介意就可以, 我好鍾意小朋友就可以~~
因為小孩每日都不斷成長~~
開始明白父母之間 ge 事 (即使有時只係一知半解)........=.=""
小孩有時唔識用正確的方法去表達自己~~
會做出一 d "古靈清怪" 或者 "百厭到死" 又或者 "聲都唔聲下" ge 表現出o黎~~
生父/ 母 當然接受到 la, 但係 stepfather /mother 接唔接受到呢~~
就真係另一回事~~
始終我覺得好少人會做到完全係 "視如己出"~
始終會對個小孩做 ge 事有保留~~
未必係唔好, 但好大可能唔係最好~~
到個陣生左一個 "真正" 係佢地 ge BB~~
就一定要考慮個小孩 ge 諗法, 俾正確 ge 輔導~~
因為佢地會覺得自己係屋企 ge "污點", 令到一個家庭存在少許 ge 唔完美~~
所以我覺得 最主要係睇返對?小朋友ge 影響~~
有幸.... 小妹細個懂性....
明白屋企係咩情形....
接受到 "新生命".... 和佢地相處融合~~ 一d 都無"灰姑娘" ge 感覺
令小妹感受到一個 "完整" ge 家
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��作者: joe198663 時間: 2005-5-27 05:06 AM 標題: [思考問題]介意?/不介意?
Thanks for your great share! ^_^
Actually I don't mind with it...
Because I will accept all of her if I really LOVE a person...
And actually it is not a problem for her to have a child...
I am willing to take care her child too...
Because I like children so much...
In my eyes, the children are pure & cute, especially their pure smile...
And also it is common that this event happens in our society...
If this event really happens on me, I will accept it...
And I will find a way to get along with her son well...
I am willing to be the son's father...
To give him a warm & completed family...
Since I am willing to share my LOVE with everyone...
When you LOVE a person, you must sacrifice something...
It is worth for us to sacriface ourselves to complete our valentine's happiness...
If you really LOVE a person, it is worthless to value too much...
In fact every challenge can pass with our true heart...
Because of LOVE, even if the days we couldn't understand each other and parted...
The days of tears, the days of smiling faces...
Whatever may happen and whatever mood you may be in...
I'll always accept you...
I am willing to sacrifice all for my LOVE...作者: 天童凱 時間: 2005-5-27 12:03 PM 標題: [思考問題]介意?/不介意?