拍拖的煩惱．．． 女友

天命難違

女仔 會唔會唔鍾意講電話嫁~ 我女友係唔多鍾意講電話個隻... 我驚煩到佢,平時都係星期六,日 先會打比佢~ 你地認為一對情侶咁有冇問題....?? 成日搵佢我又驚煩到佢>.<

fannylam

一部份女仔係唔太鍾意講電話既.....
不過一星期 打得兩日電話比佢...你會唔會....太少呢 ??
雖然你驚煩到佢者....  但係有時.. 我會覺得打多幾次...唔會煩得好多者.!!
掛住佢...打下比佢都得者....  
你驚煩到佢.... 咁佢有冇講出口先..... 你可以直接問下佢
你煩唔煩架.... !!  拍拖係要溝通架... 唔係估估下架....  知道未?

kenfrisbee

唔鍾意打電話ge話就咪咁煩.. 直接約出黎傾偈囉.. 仲好啦.. 大把藉口見面喎...
每個人性格唔同.. 愛情ge野.. 最唔好就係猜忌... 你估我我估你....
佢想點... 而你又做到.. 就下佢都無妨.... 拍拖無例子架... 個個都唔同架啦....
放心啦... 你係真心鍾意佢.. 對佢好... 佢會feel到ge....^^

joe198663

Relax~ Don't worry! ^_^
Actually there are many ways for you to comunicate with your girlfriend, except of talking in the telephone...
It seems that your girlfriend is slient, so I suggest you may find a peaceful way to get along with her...
For instance, you may find a peaceful place to have heart-to-heart with her...
I usually chat with my girlfriend in a cafe since it is comfortable & peaceful for us...
Try to to make an appointment with her, to comprehend her more...

It seems that you don't understand your girlfriend any more...
In fact you don't know her habbit & hobby any more...
You should spend more time to get along with her...
And try to comprehend her hobby...
By the way, you may find a suitable way to comunicate with her...

Futher more, you shouldn't hide your feeling...
And you shouldn't guess what she feels too...
If you really LOVE her, you should trust her...
You should tell her your feeling...
Try to share more with her, let her comprehend you too...

The lovers, seemingly happy, hold hands and walk...
It looks like everything is going perfectly, but only they know the truth...

At the first phone call, the hand with which we held the reciever trembled...
At the second call a message was left on our machine...
At the seventh call we decided to meet...
It all began on that ordinary day...

Good luck! 8)

vling2884

其實..喜歡傾電話與否..
我諗係關乎個人性格啦..
未必個個女仔都鍾意呀..
有人會愛直接見面..
有人會認為於空氣中交談..
係浪費時間咯..
視乎你女友既睇法..
至於有冇問題呢..
呢方面真係好難解答喎..
始終我地了解確實唔多..
難以下定論咯..
若果呢段感情有若干時間..
佢少傾電話都尚可解釋..
但若只係一小段日子呢..
就................
或者..佢真係冇呢種興趣呢？？
樓主..
其實我提議你..
不如直接問個明白啦..
總好過在此胡亂猜測..
相信佢係鍾意你既..
應該唔會介意你既提問啦..

bobo20082020

你可以約佢出黎見面傾咪得囉^.^"
我覺得2個人相處要坦誠 ,
你有什麼問題直接問佢就ok喇 ,
你估估下 , 會亂諗野 ,令到自己唔開心
問個明白 , 起碼得個[知]字 ,
如果你女朋友不是這樣 ,是你自己誤會了
那你是不是在 [ 自尋煩惱 ] 呢~呵呵^.^~~[個人意見]

邪炎

我覺得每個女仔都好唔同哦∼
我身邊有好多女性朋友佢地係好Like聽電話的不過只係局張於跟朋友講的∼
而對住屋企人和情人就好少哦＝　＝|||
我問佢地點解∼∼∼佢地都只係會話冇咩野好傾哦!
如果係情人佢地話怕太肉麻唔係咁好woo- . -|||
不過如果你同佢係埋一起∼間中打個電話比佢我覺得唔會點樣麻到佢哦！
如果只係星期六~日先打比佢會唔會疏左ｄ呢？！

天童凱

如果你覺得煩住佢, 你咪試下隔日打囉,
唔係長講電話幾粒鐘個d丫,, 傾3-5分鐘都可好嘛
我覺得絕對唔過份丫...
你一淨係星期六, 日打比佢...
佢可能覺得, 你係得閒先打比佢,, 攝時間個d添丫....
所以你係緊佢既話, 就多d打比佢, 當然啦, 唔係講d無聊野或吹水個d.
我記得我15歲第一次拍拖時,
就係好似你咁, 佢又以為我唔仲意講電話.又驚煩住我.
我又怕羞唔敢打比佢...........
每逢星期六,佢先打黎話星期日去街......
最後唔夠半年就散左Lu.......!!!

roannayuen

會唔會是......
1.她不想讓家人知道她拍拖
   平日家中人多....
   星期六,日比較小人,方便講話
2.你是第三者
   平日要跟正室在一起
   不方便講電話
m(_o_)m 得罪了
純粹個人推測

janethugo

我都唔鐘意傾電話ga..
攞住個電話...好煩...
不如直接面對面會好d...
其實你每日打1~2個電話畀佢..(唔好打成4~5個,好煩ga!!!)
keep住幾分鐘好喇..
唔好講成半個鐘...
講佢知你做緊乜野,
然後問吓佢點呀?
(但係唔好質問,唔好check佢咁ge語氣..要關心..)
咁d女仔應該會對你有安全感..
feel到你重視同埋認真..
但係又唔會覺得你煩囉~~