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[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

其實呢個問題睏擾咗我幾日,
雖然我已經咁樣做咗,但係我唔知咁做係啱還是唔啱。
話說,前幾日我上網,見到我好耐以前嘅男朋友online。
因為我嗰日心情唔好,所以我就搵佢講嘢。
(我係嗰種大傢分咗手都仲可以同對方咗返朋友嘅人)
但係復我嘅係一個自稱係佢女朋友嘅女仔。
因為呢個男人曾經做過一d傷害我好深嘅事情,
所以我同呢個女仔講,我希望姖無揀錯人。
跟住個女仔好好奇,一直咁追問我,
究竟我同佢識咗幾耐,知道佢幾多嘢。
初時我真係唔想去評價佢嘎,因為我覺得呢個係道德嘅問題,
就算佢曾經點樣對我唔住,我都唔應該喺佢背后評價佢,
尤其唔想喺佢現任女友麵前去講佢以前嘅事。
于是我同個女仔講,姖想知應該去問佢,唔好問我,
因為我同佢之間,太多恩恩怨怨,由我來講,絕對就唔客觀。
但係姖好強烈咁要求我講俾姖知,最后我就同姖講咗。
其實我知道,我同姖講呢一切,會令到姖覺得好唔開心,
更加會令姖覺得好迷惘。呢個並唔係我初衷。
但係我覺得,呢個女仔姖仲係好單純,18歲,
好似我當初咁細個,呢個年紀應該係開開心心,無憂無慮嘎,
我唔想見倒姖有一日重蹈我嘅覆轍。
雖然我係咁諗,但係我真係唔sure自己咁做係啱還是錯。
其實佢曾經做錯過,我哋係米應該俾一個機會佢改過呢?
又或者佢而傢對呢個女仔係好認真嘅,唔會傷害姖嘅,
我咁樣同個女仔講,係米破壞人傢嘅姻緣呢?
我又覺得自己好衰,雖然我不過係將我同佢嘅事講俾姖知,
等姖自己去判斷姖中意嘅係一個點樣嘅男人,
但係我總係覺得自己好似做咗一件壞事咁。
好迷惘啊∼∼∼
大傢有無咩意見發表下呢?

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

唔......
我會覺得你唔應該講咁多囉....
因為個女仔可能會問番佢男友....
而佢男友一定會講一d 說話去衛護自己冇錯...
而你覺得個女仔會聽邊個講野多 d 呢....
一個是自己男友一個是不相識的女子...
所以呢....你都是少說話好 d 啦...!!!

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

其實要睇你o既出發點係乜啦~~~
1. 你係好心想提個女仔的話, 比d空間o個位女仔去思索一下你o既ex,
我認為你咁做真係無問題
2. 你想你o既ex無啖好食, 有心同個女仔落藥o既,
咁就真係有點過份了..........
你回想一下你同個女仔講o既野,
係咪一面倒講你o既ex係衰人呢?
定係只係講d facts出黎,
等個女仔自己去判斷呢?
你自會知道你有無做錯了
(ps 男人係會有改過o既 一日, 但係幾時呢.............^_^)

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

pig999    算我講得衰D
你敢做真係好差好無道德
每件事係唔同既人身上
會有唔同既感受
同埋對你舊男朋友唔公平
如果佢今時今日以經變好左
敢你就會比到麻煩人地
仲會破壞左一對戀人
個女仔都有自己既諗法
佢都會感覺到個男仔係唔係對佢好啦
你真係唔應該講
不過講左都無辦法啦
經一事要長一智
同埋諗下後果
會唔會傷害到人

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

Relax~ Wise up! ^_^
In my opinion, you shouldn't tell her the truth...
In fact you may not understand her situation...
You may break her happiness...

According to what you say, it seems that the girl is pure in mind...
Actually it is so cruel for her to realize the truth...
Even so it is a truth, she should face it oneday...
She will wake up to the reality oneday...
Now sshe should enjoy the moment of being in LOVE...

If your ex-boyfriend has already corrected himself, you will break his happiness too...
Since you just guess that it may be the truth, but you don't understand their situation...
You will break a pure emotion...

It is worthless for you to hate your ex-boyfriend...
Because of him, you have grown up...
Because of him, you are stronger now...
And because of him, you get a precious experience from LOVE...
Actually you should grateful of him & you shoudl forgive him...
In fact he teaches you a lot...

If you want to help the girl, you should bless them...
It will be your pleasure to see their happiness...
When you know how to forgive a person, you really understand what LOVE is...

Actually you have already told her now...
It is meaningless to dicusss it is right or not...
Maybe it is fortunate for the girl to realize the truth...
Maybe it is crule for her to know the truth...

Wish you live happily everyday!

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

坦白講..
今次你係做錯左咯..
或者你真係出於一片好心..
不過..有冇諗過對男方好唔公平??
雖然佢之前係hurt過你..
但要清楚明白..
你同嗰個女仔根本係兩段感情..
係兩回事喎..
點可以混埋一齊呀..
你係咪肯定男方..
會用以往同你一齊既態度..
去同嗰個女仔相處、來往呀??
况且..
人會變..月會圓..
或者男方經已修心養性呢??
仲好珍惜呢段感情呢??
若果..
佢係真心鍾意呢個女仔既..
啍..我諗你呢趟就"捉錯用神"..
"幫你變成害死你"啦..

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

讲真啦,呢个男人真係好衰,
但係我都无喺个女仔面前去评价过佢d咩,
而係话俾佢知,曾经发生过嘅事,
等佢自己佢判断
我亦都同个女仔讲,毕竟係咁耐以前嘅事了,
我希望佢而家真係变好咗
不过我都觉得自己有d变态
唉∼∼∼

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

無論有什麼事也好.. 輕輕帶過也就好了....
因為妳總會加了個人意見在內...
但姻緣的話... 其實我們根本不知道會怎樣...
隨緣就算了...

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

你同佢既事始終都係過左去丫.
提返起有思意咩?! 仲要同Ex既現女友講...
如果現女友同返ex 講,, 佢只會覺得你係離間緊佢地之間既感情....
雖然你既出發點係好丫.
但唔同事唔同既野, 會發生係唔同人既身上.
係咪?!

[思考問題]我咁做究竟啱唔啱?

我覺得妳咁做好似唔係幾好咁bor
因為呢o的只係妳以前同佢之間ge事
將呢o的話俾佢現任女朋友聽
只有百害而無一利
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