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物質需要?心靈需要?

從前, 有個小朋友既爸爸好小返屋企..因為佢既爸爸每星期都要去工幹先返屋企一次..就係爸 爸返黎呢一日..個小朋友就問爸爸拎左10蚊.. 爸爸就同佢講:『仔呀仔..爸爸每天只搵100蚊嫁咋..你唔好亂用呀!!』 跟住....好快又過左一個星期喇..爸爸又返屋企喇..呢小朋友今次又問爸爸拎 錢..又問爸爸拎10蚊..爸爸就覺得奇怪..雖然10蚊唔係好多..但係對於一個7 歲既小朋友就好多喇.. 所以爸爸又同佢講:『爸爸每日真係搵100元嫁咋..你做咩要問爸爸拎咁多錢呀?』(雖 然爸爸覺得奇怪..但爸爸都比給左佢) 但呢兒子冇講一句話就入左房.. 很快1星期又1星期....兒子都同樣地問爸爸拎錢..又到左爸爸返黎既果日..爸爸 同樣返屋企..但係呢個唔孝順既兒子都係同樣地問爸爸拎錢....兒子問爸爸:『爸 爸..今天你可否給我30蚊呢?』 爸爸終於都開口問佢d錢用係邊喇..爸爸就問:『你成日問爸爸拎咁多錢做咩呀?你知唔知 道爸爸每日搵錢都好辛苦嫁..你可唔可以唔好成日都係咁呀?』 呢個兒子比爸爸話完就入左房喊喇(雖然數目很多..爸爸都無條件地給他..爸爸把錢輕輕 的放係兒子房門口)爸爸又去了工幹.... 但很快又過了1個星期了..爸爸都返屋企喇,,個仔又再問爸爸說:『爸爸..我 想....』說到呢度爸爸就好大聲鬧佢..當爸爸罵到一半....小朋友突然拉住爸爸 隻手到自己既床頭.... 拎出佢自己既豬仔錢箱將佢比左爸爸對住佢爸爸講:『爸爸呀..爸爸呢度係你一日既人 工..你可唔可以陪我一日.......?』 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 睇完呢個故事 覺得呢個小朋友好識得諗.... 有好多人, 日日都會見到爸爸 所以就變得好唔珍惜 成日嫌佢煩, 仲要話番佢轉頭.. 朝9晚5,一星期只見得佢24小時<<<有卦? 其餘6日俾哂公司,真係對呢個小朋友幾有同感... 宜家長大咗,識諗咗,都唔會有怨言lu^^ 希望各位多體諒自己的父母^^
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物質需要?心靈需要?

哈哈∼∼∼我睇個小朋友問爸爸拿第2次錢的時候就估到個Ending!
我覺得呢個小朋友一定係好想跟爸爸好好相處一日∼
我覺得佢係幾聰明而且有頭腦!
其實好多時候爸爸要反工唔係屋企小朋友係會覺得好悶同寂寞的∼特別係男孩!
原因係男孩小時候大多是十分好動的∼而且愛要爸爸跟他出去玩耍!而媽媽因要工作或做家務大多不會跟兒子去好好咁大玩一番!所以小朋友就希望爸爸可以帶佢去玩!當爸爸反工不在家中而媽媽又要做家務或工作沒有時間時小朋友就會覺得好悶好寂寞到時就會好想父母陪自己多d哦!而並不是物質的陪伴哦!

物質需要?心靈需要?

Thanks for your sharing! ^_^
This story is touching for me...
And the moral of this story is meaningful for everyone...
In the current society, we shouldn't value material comfort too much...
And the children are lack of LOVE... It is very cruel for them...

Actually I have got the ending of this story when the boy gets $10 from his father...
In fact a child doesn't need too much money, it seems that the boy plans to do something fo rhis father...
And I appreciate the boy's behaviour since he doesn't waste any money...
He saves the money and share with his father...
I think it is a great comfort for his father...

Actually material live is significiant in the current society...
We need to work for money everyday...
Surely we are busy with our job everyday...
Thus some parents don't have enough time to stay with their children...
Out of the material society, even so they want to stay with their children, they have no choice...

It is common to see many children value material comfort too much...
Since their parents gives so much for them...
Little by little, they feel lonely & disappointed...
Because they just hope for a warm family and they don't want to stay alone all day...
They are lack of LOVE...

In the story, the father is busy with his job everyday...
Thus he doesn't have enough time to stay with his son...
Actually the boy really want to stay with his father for one day only...

In my opinion, the parents should spend more time to comunicate with their children...
They should try to find a suitable way to comunicate with their children...
Actually the children need their LOVE...
It is not sufficient to have material comfort only...
A warm family is dependent on a close comunication...
I hope that all the parents can realize it...

Wish you all cherish your warm family!! ^_^

物質需要?心靈需要?


小孩是很可僯
但更可僯的應是爸爸吧
那個父母不希望每天二十四小時都待在自己的孩子身邊呢 ?
但現實就是不容許
難道生活費會由天上跌下來麼..?
單單說香港, 相信父母都要出外工作的家庭應不少
相信他們不是不想和小孩溝通的
假如每天工作九小時, 加上約一小時的乘車時間, 再減回休息時間
一天的時間真已經所餘無幾了
他們要工作, 要負擔家庭開支, 照顧兒女
做孩子的有時候也要諒解父母的難處
不可單方面的去怪責父母不理會
甚至用 "沒人愛護" 來作變壞的籍口
既然父母已分身不暇, 更應學會自己照顧愛惜自己,
單方面不斷的埋怨
不是令父母們更百上加斤嗎 ...
想做而不能做
這才是父母們最大的悲哀


物質需要?心靈需要?

我冇爸爸架....
我一出世我媽咪就同爸爸離婚...
好少會見....就算依家大左,我都好少見去見佢...
因為唔得閒?唔想見?唔想咁煩特登搭成舍鍾車去見佢兩三個鍾??
或多或少樣樣都有d掛....
同依家番到去見到佢同佢老婆同兩個女.....
心...都總係有d唔舒服,唔係佢地對我唔好.....
只係自己心理問題啫....
至於媽咪.....
我由細到大我都唔會成日見到佢既....
習慣左lu,佢放假都會去陪條仔.....
而唔係陪我....好怪....
佢陪我我反而唔自然...
佢問我今晚番唔番屋企就一定係條仔今晚唻屋企訓....
佢唔係唔錫我既....
不過佢比較自由,對我對佢自己都係一樣....
所以我都未試過有嗰個小朋友咁樣既感覺...

物質需要?心靈需要?

在香港, 生活是十分迫人的.
根本很多時候, 一天的時間根本不足夠陪伴家人與朋友.
我小時候也很少見到我的爸爸.
因為他每天都要工作到很夜.
他回家的時候我已經睡覺了.
雖然小時候也試過埋怨爸爸為何他放假的時候總是在家中.
不陪我出去玩耍.
但大了, 才明白到他一星期的工作已經令到身心疲累.
我也應該珍惜與他的時間.
雖然小時候常常覺得很寂寞.
因為自己是獨子放假的時候不是去玩而是跟媽媽到工作場地工作.
但現在想起來, 如果他們不是努力地工作.
我想我現在不會有機會在外國留學了!!!

物質需要?心靈需要?

首先~真係好多謝 liwk  的這一文章~
我之前都睇過一次~但係~個感受係同現在的一樣
小孩子係需要"物質需要?or心靈需要?"??
可能~一直以來,成人都習慣了物質生活~
會覺得小孩子同成年人都一樣~
以為好多野都可以用金錢or物質去代替~
可能對於好多人都會好agree我噤講
但係~~呢個係咪一個事實?!~
有邊個細個的時侯~唔會想有爸爸or媽媽陪自己去玩or something?!~
其實~對於小孩子~心靈的需求係比較多的~
因為~他們係未有任何的要求~任何的認識~
對於他們來講~別人"爸爸媽媽"的關心係比任何都重要~
好似這文章的小朋友~
佢係明白到金錢的重要~
但同時~他都明白到爸爸的心同樣重要~
所以~到最後~小朋友係拿出一筆爸爸的錢去要求爸爸的~
心靈??物質??~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~對於我來講~無一樣野可以被取替~!

物質需要?心靈需要?

好正呀呢個故事,我估唔到個結局呢!
睇最初以為係個細路唔乖.......想拎d錢去玩,點知原來個ending係咁感動!
睇到有d眼濕濕...
如果我有機會可以同我老豆咁傾計就好啦...
   佢一向都唔會同我講野,開口埋口都係鬧...如果有機會俾我好似呢個古仔既細路咁..
可以同自己老豆傾下計就好喇!

物質需要?心靈需要?

對不起!!!
看完這篇文章, 沒太大感覺........
但.......個人認為""物質""及""心靈""同樣重要!!!!
現在這個社會和傳統相比已經大大不同了!!!
現在的小朋友如果你只提供""心靈""的照顧, 根本不足夠........
比方說你給他""心靈""上足夠的滿足.......
但卻缺少了""物質""上的供應....
你將會發覺問題更多........小朋友會比較"為何別人有這有那, 自己卻沒有.....""
始終這個世界已經變了......
而只有"物質""沒有"心靈"上的照顧更糟........
他們跟本不會珍惜......
而心中/口中只有埋怨.........
香港太多了!!!!!!!
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