[閒話一則]想找個人聊聊天 澳洲

alicebunny

我現在在澳洲的Gold Coast 讀書，最近我覺得自己好懶散沒有動力去讀書，雖然我知道父母賺錢不容易、我知道他們辛苦，但是我真的好累好累，找到動力去做事。可以告訴我我可以怎樣嗎...........................................................好累呀!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

vincentlok

你好呀alicebunny    ﹗﹗
我聽到你講
我覺得有D親切既感覺
因為我都係過來人
我之前都係澳洲MELBOURNE讀書
又係好似你敢
所以我都好講下自己既感覺比你聽
希望幫到你啦
不過我唔知你依家讀到咩程度
不如講番我自己先啦
我當時係澳洲讀左三年半
我當時都好似你敢覺得好累真係好累
可以以前自己又唔比心機讀書
同埋自己又貪玩既原因啦
所以越讀就越覺得辛苦
我當時係諗如果我一直讀落去
我唔知幾時先可以讀完
同埋因為我亞爸亞媽係大陸有工廠
佢地又要走上走落我覺得佢無我幫手會好辛苦
因為我唔想浪費自己時間
我當時真係對自己無乜信心
唔知要用幾多年先讀完
所以最後我無讀完就走左呀
到依家番黍香港都有兩三年啦
但我仲係香港讀緊書
又要做野又要讀書
仲辛苦過係澳洲
何況我仲要時常番大陸做野添
到依家我都會覺得自己當時點解唔比有D心機﹐時間
其實當時去讀書
第一係香港讀唔掂
第二希望日後可以幫到我既工作
依家邊學邊做都算還可以
但時間就真係浪費左
但我自己個心就好過D
因為亞爸亞媽唔洗咁辛苦
不過我都成日覺得對唔起自己同父母
浪費時間同埋佢地對我支持同心機
所以我好希望真係可以幫到你
唔好因為累就放棄自己
比D心機你今日既辛苦第日
你一定覺得值得的
我依家如果再去讀書家人都可以供應到比我
但時間就無可能啦
過左去就無得番轉頭
你應該珍惜你既依家有既野
同埋好好享受你既留學生活
有無動力只係在乎於你自己
唔好令你父母既心機
同埋你自己時間
我覺得係外國識朋友好最要
你試下同一D勤力既同學一齊多D
會對你有幫助的
想想自己日後同你既父母
我諗你唔會咁累
比自己多D信心
如果有夢想﹐人就會變得堅強﹗﹗﹗﹗

windmill

下面引用由alicebunny在 2005/08/15 09:41pm 發表的內容：
我現在在澳洲的Gold Coast 讀書，最近我覺得自己好懶散沒有動力去讀書，雖然我知道父母賺錢不容易、我知道他們辛苦，但是我真的好累好累，找到動力去做事。可以告訴我我可以怎樣嗎...............................

你有幾想你O既爸母開心!!!??
可以點做你係知O既,只不過想要多D人去幫你肯定O者~~~
但係自我既肯定,絕對係大影響力多於外人囉~~~
人一個對一件事既動力,係建基於慾望!!!

joe198663

Hey! Cheer Up! 8)
Just take a rest... And try again...
It seems that you get a great presure from your study...
So I understand that how tired you are...
It seems that you feel bored with your life in Australia...
So I understand that how lonely you feel...

Sometimes I also feel tired with my job...
Whatever I wanted to give up...
The road looked so long & hard...
I didn't want to go on my way...

However I didn't give up...
When I looked back on the road which I feel both long and hard...
I realized that this was the road I chose...

The footprints I left behind...
The choice I made...
The sacrifice I paid...
But I didn't regret them at all
Oppositely I was proud of them...

Like a bird that forgot how to fly...
I forgot how to walk...
And ran and ran...
But I just took a rest...
I go on my way again...
I know that my ideal is near me now...

I hope that my sharing can help you...
Remember that your parents are attached importance to you...
So they hope that you will achieve in your study...
And don't forget that you are very fortunate...
You should know that the others can't get the same choice... And you are the lucky one...
You should cherish your choice to take your advanced study...

Just take a rest... Doing anything you like...
Going anywhere you like...
Try to do something to relax yourself...
And then you should put more effort into your study...
Wish you all the best to your study!! ^_^

freegoman

既然知道父母賺錢不易來供你讀書，你可以用這來做原動力，努力讀書考取好成績來報答父母的辛努，加油!

puremanman

I am also studying in Australia now, yeah, I know it is tough and hard, sometimes you may just wanna give up.  But don't do so, as you understand ur parents love u that much.  No pain, no gain, babi~

browneyes

真係羡慕~=.=~我唸你太多時間去唸呢樣唸個樣拉~試下去充實一下自己ge生命拉~當你又要讀書又要工作重要去埋一大堆ge活動~你就知咩叫做吾識累~因為你跟本無時間去唸其他野~其實你係太幸福拉~
可能你未經歷過咩叫無錢洗又搵吾到工書又讀吾成~得閒就去做下d生活體驗~落區做義工幫下人拉~唸下父母吾比錢你洗無得讀你會點~個人重咁懶散點得ga~到頭來你都係晒緊自己d時間~個人都吾細拉~又吾係11,12歲要人逼住讀~
吾鍾意大不了你豪一次吾讀去工作~最多都係晒你一年時間~一年係生命度佔得幾多呀~但如果令你自己可以白明到一d道理將會係終生受用~不過如果你無呢個勇氣去放棄學業~咁你就依家好好地讀書拉~

alicebunny

Thanks every one
I think I know what to do now ^.^