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發表於 2005-4-29 04:04 PM
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[閒話一則]仇恨
車伯母:
Whatever I was same as you, I usually felt that the other can't match with me...
It seems that they always have an opposite opinion to me...
Whenever I shared my view, they usually againsted me...
And I tried to presist in my view, so I was rare to care the other people's feeling...
Finally I don't know how to get along with those people, so I become lonely...
I was very upset with those experiences...
However I tried to relax myself & ponder peacefully...
I found that it was worthless for me to be upset about those people...
Actually they are free to have their own opinions...
There is nothing always right & nothing always wrong...
When you presist in your view, do you know it is really true?
As that moment, I felt hateful of myself...
Actually I didn't pay attention to the other's opinions and I was too obstinate...
My stubbornness made me lost a lot of friends...
I regreted with what I did, so I tried to forgive myself first...
And I tried to listen & accept the other people's opinions...
Little by little, I understanded that how to get along with the other people...
And I meet a lot of friends now...
Try to forgive yourself first...
And then try to improve yourself to match with the other people...
Try to listen to the other's heart too, so you will know how precious of the other's opinions are...
Wish you live happily everyday! ^_^ |
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