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[閒話一則]仇恨

好耐都冇上過黎啦~~ 唔理咩事都好,而加上返黎既感覺真係唔同晒,真係唔知點講好。
我本人是否做事太執著呢 ? 每每做事自以為對得住人,對得住自己就算..... 我覺得岩既事我就要去做,冇有任何人欄得著我,但在我身旁有很多人都不接受我意見,還可能反對我的意見~:~其實每事我都是用心的去做,可能就只是看少了一點點,就會令人不滿。我還帶著硬朗的性格,我覺得是對的都要堅持到抵,好像不能退下一樣.....其實我也十分痛苦,我做了廿多年人,我到了現在也不能懂得原諒別人,諒解別人,不能忘記他們的不是.....為何仇恨要纏繞著我

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[閒話一則]仇恨

你也懂得用這個字眼--「以為」,其實這個世界哪裡會有絕對的對與錯?對與錯是看你從什麼角度看吧!今天你以為對得住人,明天你可能發現這種想法是錯的,不知道你有沒有這種經驗嗎?個人就經歷過了!
當你覺得別人不接受自己意見的時候,或者是你未能接受別人的意見吧!你少看的一點點,別人可能覺得很重要,或者最好去想想為什麼那「一點點」對其他人都這麼重要就更理想。
我不覺得仇恨纏繞著你不放,只是你的心纏繞著事情不肯去放鬆自己(簡稱執著)。個人覺得恨是一種很辛苦的情緒,為了自己的快樂,為了讓自己了無牽掛,所以不想要將這種事情放在心上。
人大了!我知道什麼才是「最重要」。

[閒話一則]仇恨

仲有仇恨在心中,倘若別人有錯,人地有冇道歉呀?
如果有,你米放過別人,放過自已囉!
自已有錯,就不要怪人家了.
(我有少少印象,係米關於發文,扣評級ga le)

[閒話一則]仇恨

你最近有無睇晚上12點幾既電視劇
呢套劇叫[[創世紀]]
你就好似入面既羅嘉良咁
你自己應為對的.你就會去做.
沒有理會身邊的人感受
你試下冷靜一點..有什麼事和身邊的人一起解決
不要一意孤行~~這樣那些誤會慢慢的會遠離你~!
你自己的生活也會快樂一點唷~![[個人意見]]

[閒話一則]仇恨

車伯母:
Whatever I was same as you, I usually felt that the other can't match with me...
It seems that they always have an opposite opinion to me...
Whenever I shared my view, they usually againsted me...
And I tried to presist in my view, so I was rare to care the other people's feeling...
Finally I don't know how to get along with those people, so I become lonely...
I was very upset with those experiences...

However I tried to relax myself & ponder peacefully...
I found that it was worthless for me to be upset about those people...
Actually they are free to have their own opinions...
There is nothing always right & nothing always wrong...
When you presist in your view, do you know it is really true?
As that moment, I felt hateful of myself...
Actually I didn't pay attention to the other's opinions and I was too obstinate...
My stubbornness made me lost a lot of friends...
I regreted with what I did, so I tried to forgive myself first...
And I tried to listen & accept the other people's opinions...
Little by little, I understanded that how to get along with the other people...
And I meet a lot of friends now...

Try to forgive yourself first...
And then try to improve yourself to match with the other people...
Try to listen to the other's heart too, so you will know how precious of the other's opinions are...
Wish you live happily everyday! ^_^

[閒話一則]仇恨

下面引用由米飯2005/04/29 11:59am 發表的內容:
仲有仇恨在心中,倘若別人有錯,人地有冇道歉呀?
如果有,你米放過別人,放過自已囉!
自已有錯,就不要怪人家了.
(我有少少印象,係米關於發文,扣評級ga le)
係...我到了現在都不能忘記,相當痛苦,我發現我是很記仇的人....這主提也是我最後一篇

[閒話一則]仇恨

不若您可以嘗試跟您的「仇人」面對面(或是用電郵、msn、icq)講清楚,您對他有什麼不滿,或他做了什麼令您不快!這可化解很多難解的恩怨啦!且看國民黨同共產黨打了幾十年扙,現在不也能和談嗎?我相信,沒有恩怨是化不開的,只在人為!
另、如果,人家己經向您道歉,那您還記這仇作什麼?您不覺記仇會令您自已辛苦嗎??

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那為何不嘗試學習原諒別人,諒解別人呢??
你唔覺得記仇自己會好辛苦架咩?

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下面引用由車伯母2005/04/30 00:27am 發表的內容:
係...我到了現在都不能忘記,相當痛苦,我發現我是很記仇的人....這主提也是我最後一篇
那我沒記錯了,她其實都公開向妳道過歉,她也對她說的粗言穢語表示不應該.
若妳未能釋懷,就給自已多一點時間,又不是叫妳去對著她ga,唔入projectx一排,這網站仲有好多地方可去.
慢慢習慣下來,好快就唔記得ga la.
但是若然妳能冲著去面對,反而沒什麼大不了,仲快放低件事呀!
(唔知妳會否看到這扁)

[閒話一則]仇恨

都唔明你甘執著做乜!?
甘樣難道你會開心d!?
你甘憎恨人地,,人地又會有咩壞處ja!?
有壞處個個咪又係你自己..腦細胞都死緊d啦
總容易衰老添呀...
有時有d野過去左就比佢過去囉~
聽上面個位人兄講佢都同你道左歉,,係應該放開~

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