我好辛苦ａ！！！

水其

我好辛苦ａ！！！
我的父母時常話我冇用，
又話我死左，
佢地都唔會唔開心ａ！！
反而輕鬆曬．．
我次次聽到佢地咁講，
我都會落淚家！！！
我好辛苦ａ！！！！
好想去死ａ！！
但死左，
就見唔到我老公，
而且我又好怕ｏ．．．
我就黎發瘋ｌａ．．．
唉∼∼∼∼∼∼∼∼∼∼∼∼∼
我有時想，
我係唔係唔應該出世ａ？？？

Butn

好多父母都會有時搵子女出氣,
我細時都係架........
娘都成日用粗口鬧我,
咩野pk, hum家散等等.........
比人鬧兩鬧就要喊死,
咁真係唔得掂呢~~~~~
我每個禮拜都會比人鬧,
鬧到我宜家咁大個人,
我恐怕死左幾百次了.~~~~~~~~
唯有o既係,
先撿討自己係咪有問題:
例如: 有無比心機讀書?
有無只係掛住傾電話拍拖?
有無盡孝順女o既本份?
有無幫手處理家務?
等等.......................
記住, 要真心理性客觀去問自己個心哦~~~~~
我並唔相信父母會無緣無故咁樣話個女o既

freegoman

我相信沒有父母希望自己仔女死，如他們這樣說，首先檢討自己有沒有做錯或不對，如果自己沒有不對，何仿豁達面對，原諒他們，他們被是一時之氣才說那番話。

cammy4016

下面引用由Butn在 2005/05/29 02:12am 發表的內容：
好多父母都會有時搵子女出氣,
我細時都係架........
娘都成日用粗口鬧我,
咩野pk, hum家散等等.........
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☉☉↗我 都 經 歴 過 你 既 情 況！唉........父 母 生 得 你 出；若 果 係 討 厭 你 的 話；又 點 會 養 到 你 咁 大 個 呢？唔 通 佢 地 真 係 嘥 米 飯 咩？更 何 況；又 邊 會 有 父 母 真 係 討 厭 自 己 兒 女 呢？ 始 终 都 係 一 條 腸 出 架！係 咪？
若 果 真 係 一 開 口 就 " 轟 炸 機 " 的 話；我 覺 得 還 是 用 " 行 動 " 去 溝 通 吧！
同 時；若 父 母 無 故 " 塭 交 嘈 "；你 可 嘗 試 先 放 下 自 己；用 平 心 静 氣 既 態 度 去 了 解 一 吓、問 吓；到 底 出 現 甚 麼 問 題？何 以 會 咁 忟 憎！有 事 嗎？........呢 種 係 唯 一 最 能 緩 和 氣 氛 既 溝 通 方 法！幾 work 架！
但 都 係 阿 butn 嗰 句.......先 撿 討 自 己 係 咪 有 問 題 呢？

joe198663

Relax! Don't be so worried!! ^_^
Let's share with us and you will get better...
I understand that it is very painful for you to hear what your parents say...
And you may have a self-criticism since you may do something wrong...

Try to have a heart-to-heart with your parents, let they understand your feeling...
Actually your parent don't know how to express their LOVE for you...
I believe they are not inclined to treat you as this way...
Since you are their daughter, they must LOVE you...

If they don't LOVE you, they won't shout angrily at you...
Since they attach importance to you...
Actually they want you behave well...
However they express it with a wrong way...
You should know that they need to face to a great persure everyday...
Sometimes they are impatient to care about you...
Oneday you wil understand them when you have your family...

Futher more, it is extremelly silly to commit suicide!!
Actually our life is really precious...
Everyone must have their own worth to live...
We should cherish our precious life, even so what happen...
There is nothing more important than our life...
Don't you know that many people worry about you?
Actually there are many people care about you, including your parents, your friends & your boyfriend...
If you commit suicide, they will be very upset & painful...

If you really LOVE your boyfriend, please chersih yourself!
In fact you are not able to LOVE a person if you can't cherish yourself...
There must have a reason for you live in the world...
Try to find a suitable answer for yourself...

Wish you cherish yourself & live happily everyday!!

呀倫

我都係咁嫁!
我做咩野佢地就咩野好煩!我儉討過之後咪同佢地講囉!!
而家已經冇咩野啦!!
你虐下同佢地傾傾啦

龍妍

開心d啦...我都係由細比人罵到大..大家一家人忍下忍下就又一日架啦...祝你同你老公開開心心...唔好諗傻野啦...你身邊有好多錫你既人架

tennight1314

十某認為如果佢地覺得你無用,你咪做好自己,俾點成績佢地睇下羅~~~有時候這一些說話可以變成一股推動力~~~

HimCheng

其實可能父母唔識去表逹對你既愛...
小弟的老爸經常用粗口去罵小弟的...(很少很少的事都會)
我有時都忍唔住要頂返佢轉頭...
坦白講...如果佢唔想理我...根本唔需要講咁多野...
我好明白我老爸...佢係好關心我...
但只係佢唔識用其他方法去表逹!!
希望樓主試下多d同佢地傾下...
反映下...俾佢地知道佢地呢d說話係好hurt你既心...
如果佢地真係錫你既...我覺得佢地唔會再用呢d說話同你講野!!

pig999

我林，惨唔过我妈叫我去做鸡啩？
好歹我都係佢个女啊，我真係唔明，点解佢会讲得出口架。
不过，有时候，林深一层，好多话都不过係气话，
嬲起上来就会口不择言。其实都不过係紧张我。
上一代受嘅教育无我哋多，表达自然就会有d问题架啦。
多d体谅，多d关心，多d沟通，自然就会好好多架啦。