tobby

唔忍心佢地係單親家庭成長?
我唔明有咩問題?健全家庭成長係咪就等於一定係好事?
如果佢地唔離婚繼續咁樣...見面咪好易面阻阻囉?
重要係仔女面前扮恩愛喎..
其實兩個小朋友係同係姐夫既媽媽住..
咁你姐夫同你姐姐又係咪同佢媽媽一齊住?
唔係既話...其實離婚對小朋友影響都不大啦
佢地又唔係成日見...離左婚之後小朋友依舊可以見爸媽咪得囉

bobo20082020

其實我都好明白我姐感受.但係又唔知點樣可以幫到佢
因為我以前o係未婚媽媽.....雖然我以前男朋友有悔意
但我仍然離開了他.我都係無法忍受.
但係如果換轉別人的話.我真係幫佢唔到
我好想幫佢.我知道我姐係忍唔到.但係我當然唔可以話[同佢離婚]
如果你地係我會點樣開解佢啊?
我都知我姐夫真係好錯.........你地覺得我姐夫的說話想挽救這婚姻嗎?
還是暗示跟我姐說離婚?

vling2884

單親家庭又點?香港好普遍?我都係啦!!若果你家姐再顧慮o甘多而繼續啞忍你姐夫,辛苦既只係佢自己!!

tobby

其實你一直留係你姐姐身邊就已經幫左佢啦
唔好比佢亂諗野就ok la
決定權係你姐姐同你姐夫度嘛
其實你只可以等佢地既答案之後你得個知字
唔通佢地話要離婚你迫佢地唔比佢地離婚咩..係咪先
單親家庭真係好常見ka...我身邊勁多朋友都係連我自己都係
佢有你呢個妹妹你身邊陪住就好夠ka la
其實你姐姐做咩決定都好你會支持佢就係最大既開解

vling2884

唔....我覺得你姐夫似佔上風....佢態度好似模陵兩可....我諗佢未同個女仔分手,想觀察多d時間至決定.....最可憐應該係你姐姐咯!!
其實你都好乖女,肯幫姐姐分憂,但始終係佢o地兩個既事,其他人好難"幫手",好似我o地以上純誶都係意見唧,結果係點始終係佢o地揀咯!!
我都知你好唔開心,呢種滋味我都試過,但呢段時間你真係幫唔到乜野?,唯有儘量倍下你姐姐啦,佢會知你支持佢?.......

bobo20082020

嗯嗯...........可能我姐夫是我認識先..再[答]來[答]去認識到我家姐..
現在這樣.....有種奇怪的感覺....
點都好...好多謝你地~~~~~^.^"~

vling2884

你已經好叻,幫助你家姐啦.想當年我爸爸媽咪分開,自己完全唔知要點做?!!
你家姐會知你錫佢?,放心啦~~

joe198663

In my opinion, your sister should ponder her family first...
It will be a great injury for the children if thier parents get divorced...
She should ponder how to protect her family first...
And she should ponder that what result will happen if she really get divorce with her husband...
Apart from that, she should consult with her husband how to bear the duty together...
She should have a heart-to-heart with her husband to share the duty...
On the other hand, your sister may try to forgive her husband...
Although it is really difficult to forgive him, it is worth for her if she really LOVE him...

LOVE needs our forgiveness...
When we LOVE someone, we should accept all for what he/she does...
LOVE needs our sacrifice...
It is worth for us to sacrifice ourselves to complete the others happiness...
LOVE needs our sensibility...
We should be sensible enough to prevent pain happen...  
I hope my opinion can help your sister...
Wish she will solve the problem in a sensible way...