taoming

因剛剛分手而忘不了ex bf 其實是一件正常不過的事情！
若要接受新的戀情，就不要把對方與 ex bf 作出比較，因每一個人也是獨立的個體，沒辦法作出公平的比較。
建議：告訴追求者自己剛剛結束了一段感情，心理上暫時未能那麼快接受新的感情，並要求繼續保持朋友的關係，至於能否發展為情侶，得視乎將來的緣分而定！﹙可順便試試對方對自己的耐性，若發覺對方並不適合自己，則不防用暗示的方式告訴對方。﹚

jack0927

其實你點睇未同佢講清楚ｌｏｗ！！∼
佢係鍾意你都會俾時間你啦！！∼
最重要唔好拖人，唔係咁就仲傷到佢∼∼
你俾ｄ時間自己收復心情，
依家最忌盲目開始新感情，
咁會對大家都冇好處！！∼
諗清楚自己想點先再諗會唔會接受佢ｌｏｗ！！∼

joe198663

Relax~ Don't be so worried! 8)
I understand your feeling...
It took a long time for you to recover from your trauma...
And it seems that it is not suitable for you to accept his LOVE now...
In fact you may hurt him if you don't LOVE him with your true heart...
Actually I appreciate the boy's courage...
Since he is so brave to express his LOVE...
It will be great if you can accept him...

I suggest you may tell him your feeling first...
And try to keep the friendship with him...
Even so you can't fall in LOVE with him, you should cherish the precious friendship...
If you don't tell him the truth, you will be very embarrassing to face him...
If you try, he can be your dear friend...
Try to know more about each other...
Maybe he will be your dearest person oneday...

Apart from that, you should try to forget the pass...
Try to look forwards your future...
Although it is hard for you to forget the painful memory, it is worth for you to try...
Actually there are still many choices for you...
Try to  change your pain with the tears shed yesterday into tenderness...
Try to accept the people's LOVE...
Try again...
I believe that your true LOVE will come oneday...

''Like a bird that forgot how to fly...
We forgot how to walk...

Now we may look back on the road..
Which we feel both long and short...

The footprints we left behind...
Are distorted and muddy but we don't regret them at all...
We are proud of them from the bottom of our heart

A bird that forgot how to fly...
Will be able to flap its wings once again...
Just as we could start walking again...''

Wish you find your ture LOVE oneday!! ^_^

pig999

好多謝大家俾咗咁多寶貴嘅意見我，
其實我都同佢講過，我需要小小時間，
去平復我自己嘅心情，
去好好咁諗清楚我自己究竟想要d乜。
因爲我覺得兩個人喺埋一齊，唔係中意對方就夠架。
佢話佢會等我，會俾時間我。
但係我怕，最後我都係會將佢同我ex比較。
如果唔係佢，係其他人，我諗我都會毫不猶豫咁應承咗。
只係佢，係一個我好珍惜嘅朋友，如果我咁做，
我就會連呢個朋友都失去埋。
其實，我都未知道自己想點。

taoming

下面引用由pig999在 2005/06/07 01:05pm 發表的內容：
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如果唔係佢，係其他人，我諗我都會毫不猶豫咁應承咗。
只係佢，係一個我好珍惜嘅朋友，如果我咁做，
我就會連呢個朋友都失去埋。
...

若如您所言那麼珍惜他的話，反而覺得您和他可能「有D野」^^
可能某天您一覺醒來，發現您朝思暮想的已被某君所取代∼
那往事只能回味，舊夢化成追憶...

manman288

下面引用由pig999在 2005/06/06 02:11pm 發表的內容：
半個月前，同男朋友分咗手。
今日有個fd話其實佢對我一直都有d嘢。
問我究竟我哋有無可能一齊。
佢係個好男仔，但係我知道，如果我而家同佢一齊，
...

有d嘢...咁又點ja,甘都分咗手la,,
唸 黎多q餘 la .....佢係個好男仔,
你咪唔好理人la.咪同佢一齊lo ...如果
無好感,,講黎哂氣la...
人地會等你...maybe la...
蘇州過後冇艇搭....唔好怒

angefan

下面引用由pig999在 2005/06/07 01:05pm 發表的內容：
好多謝大家俾咗咁多寶貴嘅意見我，
其實我都同佢講過，我需要小小時間，
去平復我自己嘅心情，
去好好咁諗清楚我自己究竟想要d乜。
...

很好，從你的回應看起來，你很清醒，真的知道自己想要什麼，請努力下去吧！我會支持你的！

ryuen105

千萬不要為了忘記一段戀情而投進別一段戀情
要喜歡人家才跟人在一齊
there is wrostest for
給了人家希望
然後拿回去
你就將你的想法跟男生說吧

celiaw

由朋友關係開始，可能會比以前開心呢！給大家一個機會吧。