純屬舒緩自己情緒o既文章 片段, 地獄

Chieri

過多3個禮拜就係我一個朋友o既死忌 ....
三年o黎都從未忘記過 .... 甚之我o地相處時o既每一個片段同回憶都記得好清楚,
就連佢過身之前同我講o既說話都清楚記得。
每一年我都會諗返起一個夢, 一個佢報o既夢 ( 至少我覺得係 )
o係夢入面我o係搭緊飛機去地獄 .... 唔 .... 無錯, 係去地獄。
機倉入面四圍都係火, 之後我個朋友行過o黎,
點之..... 佢問我：「你近排點呀?」, 好奇怪地 .... 我竟然答佢：「幾好o丫!」
之後我就醒o左。
有時見到個鐘或者隻錶顯示個時間係 11:11, 我就會覺得係佢俾我o既 msg, 人o地話當你見到
個鐘或者隻錶顯示個時間o既數字係一樣o既話, 就係代表有人掛住你。
好巧合地, 佢過身當日 .... 我去出事現場拜祭佢, 點知我就見到 11:11。
可以o既話 ..... 我真係好想見多佢一次, 可惜 .... 自o個次之後就無o左夢見到佢
o係呢幾年o黎, 呢件事 + 我o既感覺一直都埋藏係我心入面, 從來都無同人講過 ....
我真係好想喊 .... 我好憎o個個"累"到我朋友過身o既人 ..... 有時我都覺得幾辛苦。
希望可以透過呢篇文章o黎舒緩o下。

angefan

不知道會不會有用，你可以試試睡前跟自己作一些暗示，看看能否夢見他。
試試吧！試過或者有希望，不試，就一世都不知。

Chieri

下面引用由angefan在 2005/05/27 07:46pm 發表的內容：
不知道會不會有用，你可以試試睡前跟自己作一些暗示，看看能否夢見他。
試試吧！試過或者有希望，不試，就一世都不知。

暗示 ??? 可唔可以講講點樣暗示呀 ???
係咪話比佢知我想見佢 ??

呀倫

下面引用由angefan在 2005/05/27 07:46pm 發表的內容：
不知道會不會有用，你可以試試睡前跟自己作一些暗示，看看能否夢見他。
試試吧！試過或者有希望，不試，就一世都不知。

聽人講呢!你成日諗住一個人呢!!
訓覺果陣就會夢見佢嫁啦!!!
我都試過!!

Chieri

下面引用由呀倫在 2005/05/27 08:08pm 發表的內容：
聽人講呢!你成日諗住一個人呢!!
訓覺果陣就會夢見佢嫁啦!!!
我都試過!!

咁 .... 等我試試先, 橫掂就o黎訓覺。

joe198663

Relax~ Don't be so upset! ^_^
I understand your feeling, it is really painful & upset to accept your friend's death...
Because I am same as you, my dearest friend passed away last year...
I still miss him now and I want to see him again...
However reality is so cruel for us, we can't live as our wish...

Last year, my friend passed away in an accident...
Actually I couldn't accept his death when I read the news...
I chose to evade the truth since I am not brave enough to face it...
I feel lost, afriad, upset, hopeless & helpess...
And I though that nobody could understand me...
I hid away and I hated myself so much...
Since I regreted that I quarrelled with him before he died...
I regreted that I didn't cherish him...
It's too late...

However I knew that evasion was not a sensible way...
I woke up to reality suddenly since I knew my friend was worried about me too...
Whatever he told me that he wanted his friends lived happily...
So I had to replace him to achieve his dream...
I tried accept the truth and go on living...
Since my friend also wanted me to live happily...
It is his dream, I must achieve it...

Actually sometimes I think of him, but I am not upset now...
Because I believe that it is a comfort for him if I live happily...
After this painful experience, I know how to cherish what I have...
And I am become strong to accept all the things...
I won't give up, even so what happen...

I hope that my sharing can help you...
Wish you can relax yourself & accept the truth...
Actually your friend will always bless you in heaven...
So you need to be stronger to live...

Cherish what you have now!
Wish you live as your wish everyday!! ^_^  

jooe

joe198663  :
你的一番話, 實在令人鼓舞, 應有正面的思想及做法.
Chieri :
我知道你很掛住他! 也是你永久的記憶, 他其實巳經永永遠遠巳經留在你心中.
所以你不必再需要夢見他. (如果他真的需要你幫助, 他一定會報夢給你知的.)
你這麼掛著他, 他知道一定會很辛苦, 很傷心. 還可能不願意去輪迴, 這反而可能累了他.
反而真正要關心的事是你在夢入面 (( 搭緊飛機去地獄, 而機倉入面四圍都係火.))
這個情況很不沉常, 如果你有宗教信仰的話, 應該祈求他早日去倒一個更高層次的地方.

HimCheng

其實樓主應該搵朋友傾訴一下自己的感受~
如果想喊就喊出來吧!
覺得辛苦係因為樓主没有地方去發洩~~
試下將心裏的情感釋放出來吧~
或許會好一點!

Chieri

joe198663：
多謝你o既鼓勵同分享，我諗 11:11 呢個 msg 就係佢想話比我知 ....
佢會掛住我同一直看護我，想我好好愛錫自己，我會慢慢學習去面對呢件事。
jooe：
我諗佢唔再出見o既原因係想令我知道佢已經接受呢件事，
因為依家諗返起個夢 .... 雖然係搭飛機去地獄同埋四圍都係火，
不過佢面上o既表情算係幾好 .... 睇落唔似係唔開心，
o係我醒之前 .... 佢好似係對住我笑。
但係你又講得o岩，我真係怕佢下次o黎報夢o個陣係話佢無得輪迴，
咁我就真係唔知係佢錯定我錯喇，所以我決定好好報答佢。
HimCheng：
我係一個好唔願意去表達自己內心真正o既想法同感受o既人，
甚至可以話係唔想俾人知我諗乜，可能平時同朋友相處o既時候 ....
我多數都係做聆聽o個個，或者係做一個傾訴對象，
唔知係咪因為無人會做我o既聆聽者，所以先唔會去表達自己o既感受。
其實，我睇完各位o既回覆、分享同意見之後，我第一個反應並唔係即刻知要點做，
而我係喊o左出o黎 ..... 當然唔係大喊咁過份喇 ~~~ 我喊係因為我感受到有聆聽者出現
o既關心，今次我 post 呢篇文章真係想試o下舒緩情緒，對我o黎講係一個突破 .....
不過我真係估唔到會得到各位o既支持，老實講 .... 我真係覺得好感動o架 !!!!
好想講一句：多謝 ~~!!!!! ^3^

天命難違

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