[思考問題]本命年 男朋友, 人面

pig999

今年係我嘅本命年啊。
好多人都話，本命年，通常好黑仔。
我都唔知自己算唔算黑仔。
上個月，換咗份工，錢就比以前多，而且輕鬆。
唔洗加班，唔洗捱通宵，唔洗睇人面色。
我都唔知係好還是唔好，因爲啱啱開始做，覺得壓力好大。
成日都會覺得不知所措。
有時候會覺得好寂寞。
唔知是福是禍。
年初，同男朋友分手，跟住同咗第個男仔一齊。
佢係個好男人，我同佢一齊好開心，好中意佢。
但係因爲我哋相隔太遠，分手收場。
唔通，最黑仔嘅，唔係得唔到，而係得到之後再失去？
分手前一日，媽媽又病咗，入咗醫院。
有時候林唔明白，點解d唔好嘅嘢，總係一齊咁出現。
唔通真係福無重至，禍不單行？

browneyes

倒不倒霉只是在於你自己的看法~
也有人可以看成那是一個挑戰~
那是上天給我的考驗~天將降大任於施人也~
說那些本不本命年的~真的還沒有啥跟據似的~
4月分~我媽媽入院幾次~一個伯母發現未期cancer
同時間~3個和我都不熟但相識的人同一個月內急性死亡~
最後就自已失業了=.="~這樣可以說是我倒霉了嗎
可是在5月裡~我伯母cancer情況受控~
因為失業~我跟媽媽去大陸看中醫~卻知道是頸椎移位令他經常暈~也治好了~
最後之前的入學試通過了~通知來到了~
倒霉只會跟著思想意志消沉的人喔~好好面對就不是問題了~^^~

angefan

別人也常常說什麼生肖犯太歲，什麼生肖又沖太歲，總之好像隔一兩年就說有問題的。依我看，其實所謂有沒有問題，乃是看你用什麼心態去面對問題，而不是在你身上出現什麼問題。
我總相信每件事情出現的背後都有至少一個好處，問題只是我們有沒有智慧去明暸那些好處吧！

呀倫

黑唔黑仔就係你自己諗嫁O者!!
同你話果D野都冇關嫁!!
好多唔開心O既野發生果陣!!
你就覺自己好慘嫁啦!!

FaNnYcKw

只要樂觀d，堅強d，咩都可以挨過。
什麼平命年，犯太歲，星座，生肖。
日日都有不同的禁忌，你可以照住對自己好o既事去做。
不如你調返轉諗，有唔好o既o野，跟住就係d好o野到。
同埋生老病死，係人o既必需階層。
anyway樂觀，要向好方面諗，人都會開心d。

taoming

所謂本命年只是轉變較大的一年，福禍皆可逆轉！
問題只是人們如何去面對轉變？
不要讓負面情緒佔據自己的意志，唯有積極面對才能把禍轉為福！

joe198663

Relax~ Be a happy girl! ^_^
It seems that it is only a coincidence...
Somtimes bad luck comes suddenly and we will feel helpless with it...
We will think that our DESTINY plays a trick on us...
Actually I understand what you feel now...
Because I use to have some similar experiences...

Whatever I failed in an important examination...
And then I broke up with my girlfriend...
Afterwards my father passed away...
So many things happened at the same time...
And I felt helpless, hopeless & diappionted...
I felt that my destiny was playing a trick on me...
Why does the bad luck always follow me?
I wanted to hide away, I wanted to evade...
I couldn't accept the truth since the reality was very cruel to me...

Little by little, I have come to realize that my past never heals...
And that it's no use fearing the future I can't refuse...
Actually I can't evade the truth...
In fact the truth has happened, I can't change it any more...
I should accept the truth and I need to be stronger...
And I believe that I am strong enough to live continuously...

I blamed it on these unnatural times and just gave up...
Today was very sad...
And even if I cry tomorrow...
So I believe that someday the time will come that I can smile...

Don't give up! Actually you can hand your DESTINY...
Try to accept the truth and live happily...
There is nothing we worried when we live with an optimiic attitude...
Wish you can live as your wish everyday! ^_^

pig999

好多謝大家關心。
可能真係我自己，無嘢好賴。=.=
想揾個理由俾自己接受呢d唔好嘅嘢啩。
其實好多時候，我都無嘢架，
只不過係一個人嘅時候，就覺得特別哀傷，
總係好難過，好難過咁樣。