[討論]人就是愛爭論？

joe198663

人總是愛爭論的，但總是討厭作結論...
正是這樣，我們浪費了許多時間...
我們最後得到的是什麼呢？

也許我看的太多，聽的太多，變得不愛爭論了...
你愛爭論嗎？而意義又何在？
希望聽聽你們的意見...

porkchophell

自己不大喜歡爭論.
因為每一個人的背景和觀點都不同.
所以往往到最後都變成了罵戰!
因為很多人都會堅持己見令到一件事沒完沒了似的!
但有時我也很想看一看別人的意見.
看一看別人的睇法對自己有沒有幫助!

雷．仲恩

爭論…看個人吧。有些人總是無理由地爭論。有些人比較沈默就當然反相吧。
人是否愛「爭論」，實在沒有答案。
不過討論/雄辯(古希臘學者之間的那種)則不是人人喜歡。因為這些始終要用腦。
換句話說，就是現在的人都不太愛用腦(連不客氣的說話也說出來了-,-)
而結論，我覺得不重要。因為無論在討論甚或爭論當中，人也應該有所得著。
畫公仔畫出腸就不過癮了

slayer

Debating is one of the things people do to improve life! Without doing it how can ones idea be explore and spread in the society? Of course I am not talking about non-sense argument but educated discussion over something one would believe. A country without citizen's voice of debating and talks over about important issues will eventually leads to government system simliar to China.

browneyes

爭論??我覺得是麻煩事~
所以~要是有人在爭論只會旁觀~
要是有人要與我爭論~
我會沒耐性的快快了事~
而我最討厭就是爭論時翻舊賬/把其他事拉進來~

joe198663

下面引用由porkchophell在 2005/09/06 10:38am 發表的內容：
自己不大喜歡爭論.
因為每一個人的背景和觀點都不同.
所以往往到最後都變成了罵戰!
因為很多人都會堅持己見令到一件事沒完沒了似的!
...

Thanks for reply! ^_^
I agree with you that we have different backgrounds...
And we also have different ideas...
When we insist on our though, we will debate with the others...

And actually we can learn something from the debate...
Even so we can get a suitable result, we have learned a lot...
Maybe it is the way for us to learn more......

vling2884

爭論？？ 視乎個人既性格啦！！ 以前既我就真係幾鍾意.. 嚴重時嘈到氣喘兼心跳加速.. 好討厭呢種感覺=.=''.. 每次都覺得後悔且無謂.. 浪費時間亦傷了心神>.<'''.. 唉~~~~ 所以現今既我已極少再玩.. 所謂爭論既遊戲.. 除非關於工作上啦..(必定會據理力爭~) 就算嗌嬴又點喎？！ 只不過係剎那快感.. 確實係唔值得咯=.=''''..

joe198663

下面引用由雷．仲恩在 2005/09/06 04:26pm 發表的內容：
爭論…看個人吧。有些人總是無理由地爭論。有些人比較沈默就當然反相吧。
人是否愛「爭論」，實在沒有答案。
不過討論/雄辯(古希臘學者之間的那種)則不是人人喜歡。因為這些始終要用腦。
換句話說，就是現在的?..

謝謝你的回復... ^_^
我很喜歡這個答案，也許就是沒有答案...
也許這正是人和人之間的相處方式...
也許這就是我們尋找真理的方式...

忘了我們也正在討論呢...
有時候我也不愛用腦... =_=''

joe198663

下面引用由slayer在 2005/09/06 05:36pm 發表的內容：
Debating is one of the things people do to improve life! Without doing it how can ones idea be explore and spread in the society? Of course I am not talking about non-sense argument but educated d ...

Thanks for reply first! 8)
I agree with you...
Without debating, we can't improve our Life...
Whatever we discovered a lot from debating...
And we learned a lot...
Even if we can't gety a suitable result, we have improved a lot during the debating...

And I agree with that those non-sense arguments are meaningless...
Since we can't learn anything from it...
On the contrary, it is worthless to argue with the others...
Finally we get nothing from the argument...

We see, we find, and then we make sure...
We stare, we are fascinated, and then we are satisfied...
But we look up, we see, we compare...
We despise, we  stray, we are abandoned......

joe198663

下面引用由vling2884在 2005/09/07 01:12am 發表的內容：
爭論？？
視乎個人既性格啦！！
以前既我就真係幾鍾意..
嚴重時嘈到氣喘兼心跳加速..
...

Thanks for reply! ^.^
Actually I am same as you, I dislike to argue with the others...
Since it is meaningless & wasteful...
Finally we get nothing from the argument...
And it is not healthy too...
When we are angry with something, our health will be affected...

However I will discuss with the others when I want to insist on my idea...
If someone can't give me a suitable explanation, I won't give up...
I will insist on my though always...

Surely I dislike to worry about anything...
Since I want to live happily everyday...
Since I cherish my freedom and I would like to share it with everyone.......