i don't get it ........if this girl like you or like"d" you gei, why she choose to give you such a hard time at christmas ..... and she know 30 is your b-day.....
i mean, most of the people, even they want to stop the relationship......more likly they will wait until after these happy holidays sin ga low ...... it's so mean to break someone 's heart at x'mas...
at my point of views.....maybe that means things don't go the way you thought nei .....maybe she want to give you a suprise on your b-day nei.....