[閒話一則]熟識的痛苦, 害怕悲劇重演! 心情

porkchophell

每一次來到愛與性這一板的時候.
心情都是沈重與不快的?
每一次都好像心碎的感覺...
本身自己認為剛開始了一段感情.
剛好過了一個星期, 本身是十分愉快的.
但我的快樂總是不太喜歡我, 總是要馬上離開我的身邊.
每一次都抱住屢敗屢戰的勇氣去接受新的感情.
屢敗屢戰地去找尋愛.
但總是給拋棄給踐踏我對愛情的熱誠.
本以為這一次我跟我的伴侶可以長久一點.
但到頭來, 因為對方的過去.
我再要跌入一口深深的枯井裡.
因為她忘記不了前度男友的拋棄.
覺得我是一個當初說愛她照顧她的人.
到最後把她拋棄的人會是我.
對愛情失去了信心.
現在覺得很無奈.
為何每一次都不讓我努力去愛一個人?
總是因為別人的過去而令一段感情無疾而終?
她在電話中說不想見到我.
而她身邊的朋友都說會盡量勸解她.
但我真的很害怕, 一次一次的失敗令自己很無信心.
我很怕到最後的結果還是給人放棄.
我的心真的很亂...
如果放棄我可以令到你不會被傷害的! 不會再輸在感情上的話!
那我呢? 這樣對我公平嗎?
難道我不會被傷害嗎? 還是愛情根本不適合我玩的遊戲呢???

angefan

她就像從前的我，不適合談戀愛，就算今天她會跟你一起，明天就要離開你了！這個世界就是有這麼多病態的人，或許這只是你和她沒有緣份，等她真正成長後，她才適合拍拖。
逃避你，卻又期待我可跟你做情人，而用情的心，可天昏地暗。
逃避你，愛是遙又遠得很，而你終不可靠近，還是不相信能和你合襯。
如共你從沒相戀，不會有終結，誰人在意情在我心的深處不可以停止？

HimCheng

porkchophell大人:
不用這樣子啊!!
既然你已做好了所有的東西...
那只是她不懂得賞識你啊!!
世上總會有懂得欣賞,珍惜大人的好女子...
小弟覺得porkchophell 大人只是未遇上擺了!!
世事豈能盡如人意~
但求無愧於心!!

tto004

你有沒有想過會不會是你自己對她有要求呢？ 我以前對女朋友也是這樣， 她們都走得很快。
不過以後我學會了多交一些女性朋友就好了， 當然啦， 很多都不怎麼好看， 但是那個你喜歡的就會覺得你跟她談天， 約出街， 等等等等的都只是因為你們是好朋友。 到時候•••
好啦， 不說了， 你自己想想吧。

taoming

在成長的過程中，我們總會犯上很多錯失，我們得從錯誤中學習才能成長！
戀愛…就是學習如何與異性相處的過程，感情若達到水乳交溶的地步，雙方心靈連繫才能夠深。
其實對方提出說因忘不了過去的情人而分手，那只是您捉摸不到對方的靈魂！
在拍拖的起步階段，通常為摸索期，從而了解雙方的背景、行為、喜好等等。但過了摸索期後，若要更進一步發展，就得燃點對方的愛…我們為了保護自己，心靈上會築起一道又一道的牆，過去的記憶就是合成牆壁的材料，若您能了解牆壁的構造，那就能打破那道牆，進入對方的內心，重燃對方那遺忘了的戀愛感覺。
可能一個承諾、一個舉動或一件小禮物就是打動對方的鑰匙！

joe198663

porkchophell:
Don't give up! Try to believe LOVE... 8)
Actually we can't imagine other people's pain
It's hard for us to share it
However I undertsand your feeling...
It is very painful that your girfriend gives up you...
You feel hopeless, disappointed, painful & lost...
You may think that your DESTINY plays a trick on you...
Thus you are not brave enough to accept the truth now...

Actually it is hard for you to recover from your painful memory...
However evasion is not a way, you should face the truth oneday...
If you give up now, you will never know what happiness is...
Sometimes we need to face some challenges when we want to find our happiness...
But actually it is worth... If you don't try, you will never get the result...

Even so we are injured in LOVE, it is worth for us to try it...
It is enough for us to fall ion LOVE with somebody...
And we shouldn't value too much for the result...
For me, I am willing to LOVE a person without a result since I just enjoy the moment of being in LOVE...

Letting Go! Try again...
Sometimes it is worth for us to sacrifice ourselves to complete someone's happiness...
Maybe it is the best way for you to break up with your girlfriend...
In fact there won't be any result if you fall in LOVE with your girlfriend relutantly...
It is painful for you to continue to LOVE your girlfriend...
Since she still misses someone, she doesn't LOVE you with her true heart...
Even so the truth is unacceptable, you must face it oneday...

It seems that you need time to recover from your trauma...
I hope that my sharing can comfort you...
Actually I don't know about what I say, I just want to help you...
If you get any problem, let's share with us...
There are many people willing to listen to you...

After this painful experience, you will grow up...
After wipe away your tears, you will be stronger...
Wish you live as your wish everyday!! ^_^

porkchophell

now everything sort of settle.
she just said that we would slowly try out.
because she also thinks that if she doesnt want to be in a relationship.
she shouldnt start at the first place.
also it would be unfair.
so we will communicate more and spend more time to talk.
i hope this is the solution to solve our problem

taoming

下面引用由porkchophell在 2005/06/07 10:45pm 發表的內容：
now everything sort of settle.
she just said that we would slowly try out.
because she also thinks that if she doesnt want to be in a relationship.
she shouldnt start at the first place.
...

Just keep on......
Love is coming by chance.
She should learn to find out the tender feeling for...
Good Luck and may God bless you!

angefan

還有，如果你一次又一次地面對同樣的問題，上天可能只是想要教導你一些事情吧！
個人經驗，我亦曾經面對過不少喜玩心理戰的男孩，初時覺得自己被愚弄，後來經歷過很多次之後，才接受了這個世界上有極多男孩是這個樣子的，其實他們也只是想要用「走精面」的方法感受到自己對對方的愛，而不是想要愚弄自己。
不過無論如何，我是不會接受這種男孩的，因為我想要是不過是一份真心。

porkchophell

其實自己也只是想找一個真心的人.
我不需要什麼激情, 什麼愛情心理戰.
只想有一段平淡的感情已經很幸福了!
本以為問題已經解決. 原來問題接種而來.
現在她發覺她享受自己一個人的生活.
享受跟朋友一起的時候.
發覺原來她未準備好談戀愛.
因為覺得談戀愛要有commitment.
這幾天的轉變令我喘不過氣來.
因為又親密變成現在跟冰一樣冷.
真的受不了.
她跟我說不要找她見她直到她考完試.
180度轉變的態度令自己很低落.
如果你想一個人的時候.
為何當初你要接受我呢?
現在的我已經打了8成的輸數.
因為我知道女孩決定了的事.
你在她面前死也改變不了.
現在只是等待判刑的來臨.
再做一個愛情的犧牲品!!