[思考問題]介意?/不介意? 小朋友, 小孩

bobo20082020

如果,有一日 , 你遇到一個好有FEEL既異性 ,
你同佢大家都有好感 , 於是 , 你拿出勇氣 ,
跟他 / 她表明心意 , 她 /他 也很樂意接受你 / 妳 ,
這時候 , 他 / 她 跟你說 , 我離左婚 , 還有小孩 , 你還會跟我一起嗎?...........
問題就是 :
               你會否介意 ? 為什麼會介意 ? 還是 , 你不會介意
跟他 / 她一起?
  
       我是女:如果係我遇到一個男仔係咁既..我會跟他在一起 ,
我不會介意 , 因為小朋友是無辜的 , 最重要 , 我是對[他]有FEEL
這感覺是騙不到自己的^__^"

          其實 , 男跟女 ,應該有點分別 ,所以想看看各位男會員的回覆~★

l9810210

我就冇咩所謂啦，只要小朋友聽話聽教，咁當佢係仔/女都冇所謂，你養個小朋友不但能令佢有父愛既感覺，仲會令對方更加對你有好感，同埋佢都會好開心。

HimCheng

若然發生在小弟身上...我諗我唔會介意~
主因當然係我對佢有feel啦~
而我本身係好好好鐘意小朋友既~
所以我諗我唔會介意!!

anyoneqq

其實鍾意一個人應該鍾意埋佢身邊既野 呢d先叫真愛ma....
so如果係我 我唔會介意囉....

fannylam

有咩好介意呀.....
鍾意一個人唔會介意對方既任何野架.....
我都鍾意左一個人...同左佢一齊唔係好耐...
不過有"d"野又唔可以比人知道我地既關係....
我都要接受架....  因為我愛佢囉~~ haha~~ 就係咁簡單....
不過今日個心情係有"d"唔開心架....

raborovskie

其實依家已經好少人會介意 ga la~
我諗 要決定 介唔介意的應該係個小朋友~~
因為父母再婚對個小朋友係有一定的影響!!!!
或者咁講la~~ 其實呢個問題對我o黎講比較敏感~~
因為我就係 係呢種家庭下長大~~
或者我初初接觸 stepfather 時我年紀仲細, 大約仲係 BB 個陣~~
細細個已經同婆婆一齊住, 慢慢俾我接觸 + 接受 呢個 stepfather~~
當然現在我同佢都相處得十分好 la~~
因為佢對我盡左做 daddy ge 責任, 俾我feel 到咩叫做父愛~~
而我都唔介意叫佢做 daddy~~
係我心中係就係 daddy嘛!!!!
即使依家只有 daddy + 媽媽+ 我知道呢件事~~
心中有時的確不是味兒~~
但我已經覺得好滿足~~
因為我覺得呢件事情一開始 已經唔係兩個人ge 事~~
而係 兩個大人 + 小朋友 ge 事~~
做小孩的一定不想生活係好似 "灰姑娘" 咁 ge 環境入面~~
但係唔係真係 3方面都唔介意呢??
我想一定要相處過先會知道~~
有時唔係話 個口講 我唔介意就可以, 我好鍾意小朋友就可以~~
因為小孩每日都不斷成長~~
開始明白父母之間 ge 事 (即使有時只係一知半解)........=.=""
小孩有時唔識用正確的方法去表達自己~~
會做出一 d "古靈清怪" 或者 "百厭到死" 又或者 "聲都唔聲下"  ge 表現出o黎~~
生父/ 母 當然接受到 la, 但係 stepfather /mother 接唔接受到呢~~
就真係另一回事~~
始終我覺得好少人會做到完全係 "視如己出"~
始終會對個小孩做 ge 事有保留~~
未必係唔好, 但好大可能唔係最好~~
到個陣生左一個 "真正" 係佢地 ge BB~~
就一定要考慮個小孩 ge 諗法, 俾正確 ge 輔導~~
因為佢地會覺得自己係屋企 ge "污點", 令到一個家庭存在少許 ge 唔完美~~
所以我覺得 最主要係睇返對?小朋友ge 影響~~
有幸.... 小妹細個懂性....
明白屋企係咩情形....
接受到 "新生命"....　和佢地相處融合~~ 一d 都無"灰姑娘" ge 感覺
令小妹感受到一個 "完整" ge 家
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joe198663

Thanks for your great share! ^_^
Actually I don't mind with it...
Because I will accept all of her if I really LOVE a person...
And actually it is not a problem for her to have a child...
I am willing to take care her child too...
Because I like children so much...
In my eyes, the children are pure & cute, especially their pure smile...  
And also it is common that this event happens in our society...

If this event really happens on me, I will accept it...
And I will find a way to get along with her son well...
I am willing to be the son's father...
To give him a warm & completed family...
Since I am willing to share my LOVE with everyone...

When you LOVE a person, you must sacrifice something...
It is worth for us to sacriface ourselves to complete our valentine's happiness...
If you really LOVE a person, it is worthless to value too much...
In fact every challenge can pass with our true heart...

Because of LOVE, even if the days we couldn't understand each other and parted...
The days of tears, the days of smiling faces...
Whatever may happen and whatever mood you may be in...
I'll always accept you...
I am willing to sacrifice all for my LOVE...

天童凱

我會同佢一齊丫.. 但初頭一定會有壓力!!!!
壓力係來自自已既家人, 同小朋友既感受.
家人[尤其係老人家], 會覺得有個"平而仔", 同個男仔未必好丫.好既就唔會離婚既心態.
而小朋友. 會反叛. 會抗拒多一個媽咪或爸爸.
不過, 如果倆個人真係決定左一齊. 其他人都只有接受