好想死左去算..... 生死

AlienVirgin

搵唔到工~又冇回音~又比屋企人"屈"我冇搵工~
問題唔係我冇搵丫ma~係冇回音丫~
又話我個樣又話我呢樣~
又話我係廢人一個~冇所事事~
我寧願死左去好過~都唔想對住呢d甘既人~
我經常都諗住去死~
我阿媽成日都話寧願冇生我~
(因為佢以為我係男仔黎..點知生左係女仔)
又成日話我蠢....連我家姐都係甘~
如果係甘我死左去~佢地都唔會有d咩野反應~
就算佢地在乎我生死．．．我已經唔在乎啦∼
好大壓力丫∼我真係頂唔順∼
哼∼我寧願唔做你個女丫∼死左去好過∼
「命該如此 我會認我輸」
I Am Worthless
I Hate my monter
I Hate Myself
I Hate my life
I Hate the whole world
There is no Reason to live

szeszenic

你唔洗唔開心呀...你可以同佢地講你有搵工...同佢地傾o下丫ma...
唔洗用死黎解決...好傻喔..
你可以搵朋友傾o下..
又可以係度同人傾o下ma..

angefan

我想我明白妳的感受，每個人生存在世都有他的功課，如果不學好做好自己的功課，就如重復不斷地面對同樣的問題，直到妳學懂自己要學的東西為止。
關於心靈成長這一課沒有人能教妳，只有妳自己可以給自己答案，多看心靈書藉吧！
．．．
生命是一連串的修行過程，每個人來到這個世界都是為了修行，問題只是他們是否了解吧！

gacktau

我想知你幾多歲?
讀書成績或者外表如何....?
而且見了什麼工作..?
其實..您有找工..好過很多人的了..
有些人連找工的勇氣都沒有...以經證明了你不是廢人呢~!
人地請不請你...不是你的錯...有時唔請便是唔請..
你家人不認同你...不體諒你...你有無和其他朋友說過
或者同社工說過..?...其實透過溝通..可以令你心情好點的..
而且..死..是逃避不到問題的...你有勇氣去找工...
便應該堅強的落去...證明你不是無找工作...
或者試試找些容易的工做住先...正所謂..
騎牛搵馬.....到時才找第二樣工作吧....
未來不說..說回現在...小弟老實說..不太懂說話..
不過希望可以令你不再胡思亂想落去吧..
記住...命運最終也是自已掌握的...你放棄了便是失敗者..
要取勝不一定要好叻..只要證明自已是無做過後悔的事..
便成功的了...難聽點說...其實你不是廢人..
因為你一出生..便以經勝利了...
萬多條精子中..只有你能成功結合...
還不是第一嗎?......記住...世界上...
能令你開心點的事多的是...只是你向好還是壞那邊想啊~!

唔話你知

只要捱過谷底,勇敢地爬起來,就有好日子過..本人好明白你心情,以前有很多不愉快事情發生,,幸好堅持到底,努力發奮總算捱過最黑暗的日子.
堅持下去,只耍自已盡了力,不是你的錯,不要理會別人的看法,未搵到工只不過,
(時機未到),你可以一面搵工,一面進修自已,到圖書館看書或報讀進修班.
祝你盡快走過亦景,迎接將來

browneyes

跟我有點像~媽為追生男孩而生我~
更慘的是我表現沒姐弟好~他們都是品學兼優的學生~
但你爸媽養你養那麼大~用多少心你知道嗎~
(大概等你也做人母親才知吧)
她給你負氣說話~你也給她臭臉~
這樣惡性循環下去真的沒完沒了~
你也長大了~別小孩子氣~
香港不難找工作吧~只怕是選工作~
你又不是沒知識的中年人~情況應該好多了~
只要努力堅持下去~一定會碰到理想的工作的~
心情真的不好的時候就出門走走~
看看其他人如何生活~或者可以誤出一些事情來~
別把自己收在一旁~這樣只會越鑽牛角尖

freegoman

Alien Virgin 我明白你的心情，但請不要放棄。我的情况我估比你還差，我大學畢業，十多年工作经驗，都揾唔到工作，但我仍然努力去揾，不放棄，我想明天會更好，所以希望你也不抱怨身边的人，祇要繼續揾功，一定能找到工。共勉之。

chachabb

人生總有低潮時期,當你捱過後,回頭一看,
這可能只是小事一椿~~~~
要撐下去~~~
你心中有重要的人吧,等於你在別人的心中也很重要的~~~
不要令人擔心你了~~~

joe198663

AlienVirgin:
Relax! Don't give up!
Actually I understand your feeling...
In fact it is very painful that there is nobody understand you...
And it is a great persure for you to find your job...
So you feel lost, disappointed & hopeless...

However you shouldn't give up since there are many people support you too...
At least, many people are willing to listen to you here...
I believe that you will get better after you share with us...
And your friends are worried about you too...

Actually your family really LOVE you, but they express with a special way...
In fact they attach importance to you...
If they don't LOVE you, they won't remind you any more...
It seems that they are worried about you, so they shout at you sometimes...
You may have a heart-to-heart with your family...
Try to tell them the truth, actually you need time to find your job...
I believe they will accept your explanation & understand your sorrow too...

Apat from that, our life is really precious for us...
Actually everyone have their own worth, including you...
Everyone are hard to find the meaning of life...
If you try to find it, you must get your answer oneday...
So you shouldn't hate your life...
Don't you know how precious our life is?

Today passing by...
Tomorrow we don't yet see...
The past we are holding...
Make our world so wonderful...

The freedom we have...
The choices we make...
The sacrifice we pay...
Make our life so fantastic...

If you give up, you will regret oneday...
Because you have missed too many opportunities...
We will grow up when we face to our problems...
When we overcome them, we will be stronger...

Try to overcome your problem...
If you try, you msut succeed oneday...
And you will know how wonderful our world is...
In fact there many things wait for us to see...

Try again! Actually it is not difficult to find a suitable job...
Wish you solve your problem early & live happily everyday!! ^_^

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下面引用由AlienVirgin在 2005/05/31 07:21pm 發表的內容：
搵唔到工~又冇回音~又比屋企人"屈"我冇搵工~
問題唔係我冇搵丫ma~係冇回音丫~
又話我個樣又話我呢樣~
又話我係廢人一個~冇所事事~
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我又係搵緊工,哈!咁似我嘅情況嘅?我屋企人又係咁話我!一模一樣咁滯!差在冇話我蠢,但就話我咁聰明有手有腳都唔肯去搵野做!成日話我個腦就黎有問題!我都有閃過死的念頭,但只係停留起幻想之中,我一定唔會去死!
千祈唔好去死呀!你的情況已比我好,要死的話都係我先!我仲慘!我係大仔,依家廿幾歲喇!家中父母又年紀漸大,家中的經濟應該開始轉移到我身上,但現在我又失業,無計!早年遇著無良顧主(其實係自己親戚),白做左成年最後佢玩破產,我一個仙人工都得唔到,最近又拎左萬幾銀讀左個課程話有野做,但最後差唔多貼埋錢出黎實習咁滯之後又冇哂下文......遇過兩個無良商人後,令我對就業失去信心!再加上我搵野做要岩自己興趣又要求高而每每碰釘,太多的失敗之下開始對搵工有d恐懼,同時間再加上家人及自己給予的壓力,心情真的很難受!!你有勇氣去繼續搵工真的比我好了!!
我依然能支持到今時今日全因我問心無愧,自己做過甚麼自己知道便可以,再加上我的理想,雖然是有些難受,但就盡量令自己無視旁人的冷言.
聽我說吧!有這處境的不只你一個,在這世上還有很多人陪著你行這條路的!再者我相信,只要生存在世,每人都將會有他要身處的地方要做事,只是時間上的問題!要是死了便一切終結!你不覺得可惜嗎?你不想看看將來努力的成果嗎?留著我們的"老命"吧!
這篇東東花了我成個鐘頭去打的!平時在討論板我不會花這麼多心機去打因為我打字打得很慢又不夠靈活,希望沒有白費我的心血啦!!
p.s:有可能的話真係希望有相同處境的人能出來一起傾下偈互相打打氣!
By同道中人