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我同我女朋友分左手大半年﹐
係分手前其實我都知佢家等錢用,
佢爸爸欠債很多,
但佢爸爸唔係果D鍾意賭錢玩女人果種人,
佢爸爸無錢係因為佢共兩個女去讀書,
借下借D錢同D利息加埋都好係野,
我既舊女朋友同佢妹妹都搵錢唔多,
佢媽媽仲攪笑,明知家裡環境唔好,
又唔去搵工作做,
但仲係好似當乜事都無野敢,
每日都係同埋D(私拉)佢的朋友去打麻雀
飲茶,跳舞,唱歌,飯左唔煮,
佢爸爸一半人工都拿出黍,
比佢老婆交租同家用,
跟住還下錢真係無幾多淨,
所以成日問我個舊女朋友羅佢個女羅錢,
又因為如果我既女朋友想去外讀書,
佢爸爸都唔會攪到敢,
我既女朋友去之前有問過佢爸爸有無錢,
供唔供到佢去讀,
佢爸爸又話得,
點知又唔係好得,
所以就借錢,
係敢既情況,我既女朋友佢自己無錢,
就會去係信用咭度羅住出黍先,
敢佢爸爸又以為佢個女有錢就時不時,
問佢個女羅﹐我既女朋友無唔好意思話比佢爸爸聽個事實,
就係敢既情況下,
D咭爆晒就去問財務借錢,
但最衰佢份工出糧又唔准,
所以就成日會無錢,
就黍問我借,
我同佢分手係因為我覺得佢個人同以前係外國時唔同,
同埋覺得佢唔適合我所以分手,
係分手時佢講過佢依家好多問題要解決(錢),
我仲話要離開佢,但都無愛情係埋一齊都無意思,
所以我就話你如果有事我就一定會幫,
就樣我去借錢佢其實係比佢,
因為佢知道我唔會要佢還,
但係長期係敢我都唔頂唔住,
同埋我開頭聽就話欠三萬,
之後聽就話欠5﹐6萬,
最後昨日聽就欠十萬,
我都唔知點幫佢好,
叫佢破產佢又唔想,
我比佢D錢都係還利息,
我覺得幫佢又只係比銀行賺利息,
幫佢﹐我又遲早唔頂順,
唔幫佢﹐我又好似無情無義,
佢同我講佢借錢借到無乜朋友,
我唔幫佢無乜人會幫佢,
同埋佢同我一齊都五年時間,
佢家人唔係做D衰野欠人地錢,
佢爸爸因為愛個女先會欠人地錢,
我既女朋友又因為對佢爸爸好先欠人地錢,
我真係唔知仲幫唔幫好..............
我應該點做先好

唔知幫唔幫好

都幫左咁多次啦~
咩情義都還晒比佢喇掛??
樓主如果係好有錢就無所謂啫...
但係大家都差不多環境...
你繼續咁幫佢...遲早連樓主你自己都會同佢一樣呢...
幫左咁多次...小人認為夠喇~~

唔知幫唔幫好

li位人兄~~其实比着我,我都会帮,我都知道你既处境,照我睇,你应该同你前GF讲下,话甘落去5系办法,叫她坦白D同阿爸讲, 然后先一齐lm办法,如果5系你继续帮落去系无底深潭....(or你可以残忍D..索性同距地断绝来往, 甘你就乜都5洗烦()

唔知幫唔幫好

幫啦~ 幫得就幫ar ma~ 幫多d人 個人會好d~= ="

唔知幫唔幫好

我會覺得你巳前女友會唔會....
你如果真係想幫佢...
咁你叫佢講個真實數字出嚟...
再同佢做一個理財分析...
睇吓佢有冇能力還...
如果冇...都是叫佢破產啦...
咁借法....會一借不可收拾....

唔知幫唔幫好

下面引用由ghostsimon2005/04/04 07:24pm 發表的內容:
li位人兄~~其实比着我,我都会帮,我都知道你既处境,照我睇,你应该同你前GF讲下,话甘落去5系办法,叫她坦白D同阿爸讲, 然后先一齐lm...
佢亞爸都以經知道依家佢咩環境
但佢亞爸條數借得仲大
佢爸都無辦法
先開口問佢個女羅

唔知幫唔幫好

下面引用由chun20062005/04/04 07:29pm 發表的內容:
幫啦~ 幫得就幫ar ma~ 幫多d人 個人會好d~= ="
我都知道
幫得到就幫
好老實講
但我依家因為敢我每個月
一蚊都無得淨
我覺得好無安全敢
同埋依家都係還緊利息炸
我唔知一直落去到幾時

唔知幫唔幫好

我覺得幫有好多種唔同的辦法~
更何況你都已經幫過佢我估都不少次數了~
縱然你想幫佢但量力而為才是最重要哦~
雖然佢屋企人唔係因為唔好的事才這樣~
但係你也不一定要拖累自己哦!
你唔幫佢係因為有心而無力~但係唔代表你無情哦!
假如你真的無情就不會經常幫佢吧!
而且你叫佢or家人選擇破產我覺得係一個好的建議哦!
因為無面子總好過到最後走投無路做傻事吧!
如果我係你我會告訴自己也有心無力~
但你可以在佢身邊支持佢哦縱然是朋友^^

唔知幫唔幫好

幫到人當然幫啦!
但係幫人之前要先看看自己的情況
唔好太過強逼自己

唔知幫唔幫好

Actually it is right that for you to help her...
However you should ponder your economy ability...
You should be sensible enough to ponder that you can help her or not...
Actually it is not your mistake that you can't help her...
I suggest you can find your friends to discuss how to help her...
You may join your friends to share the problem with you...
Even so she is your ex-girlfriend, she is still your friend now...
It is worth for you to help her since her situation is so bad...
Wish you can solve this problem early... ^_^

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